dating your best friends sister

[johnm420]

alright ive been having a problem lately. ive been getting tons of mixed signals from my friends sister she being 16 me 17. For the past two weeks ive felt like shes been giving me signals hinting that she is interested in me. So for example

Im like im going to the movies on saturday with some friends wana come shes like shure ill call you. comes to saturady no call i call her she makes up same lame excuse. Saying she couldnt find my cell phone number and i said ask your brother she said i didnt want to bother him. So im like whatever. Then next week she calls me up and asks me if i want to go to the mall with her. I'm wondering whats going on here.

she ussaly seems like she is interested in me , but sometimes shes like the total oposite person. im not shure if shes trying to just blow me off or is trying to get me more interested

Also her mom is friends with my mom and she always says that im so good i looking and how great it would be if we went out.

But there is a thin margine of error here because if i ask her out i might mess up my friendship and im getting mixed signals like above.



so to summarize my problems
1) whats up with the mixed signals
2) how to get around the whole datting your friends sister

 

[Vincent]

Trust me, this is a bad idea.

 

[johnm420]

ya im getting that idea

bros come before girls

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by johnm420
bros come before girls

It's not even that, it's that it will be awkward between you and your friend and he'll be involved even if he doesn't want to be, and if something goes bad it will most likely hurt your friendship.

It's really just not worth it.

 

[johnm420]

ya i understand it can cause more problems than it would be worth

 

[Kidd]

Bro trust me, not worth it.

Because once you break up...

 

[johnm420]

ya it wouldnt work out unless my friend was cool with it but id feel weird going up to my friend and be like soo can i date your sister

i dont think it would work