"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dating Younger Women Calculator

COD

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We all know that thehot new trend is older women dating younger men (cougar craze) but men dating younger women has been the staple for many years.

But, how young is too young.........ah the solution is easy if you use the age differential calculator *.

X=Y divided by 2 + 7 years

X=HER AGE
Y=YOUR AGE

example: if your 44 then half of 44 is 22+7 = 29(her age)

so the next time a girl says she is 20, she is allowed to date a man up to 26........without it looking creepy. For every year older than 26 the creep factor increases. Hats off to men that are way over the hill that can still bang young chics.........creepy but entertaining.

* this is just a guide........don't take it literal.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova

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A Don Juan really shouldn't give a damn about "looking creepy" just because he's able to land himself a young, attractive woman.

Here's my formula, X=woman's age and Y=man's age:

If Y > 18 and X > 18, then Y can fvck X.

For those under 18, it becomes a little more sophisticated which I will not get into.
 

Warrior74

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As far as just sex. As long as she's 21 I don't have a problem. 22 is the lowest I have dated at my current age, 40 at the oldest. It's only creepy if you are hanging around her young friends and trying to be young like them. Bring them into your world and let them prove they are mature enough to be with you. That's how I play it. Good luck.
 

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COD said:
We all know that thehot new trend is older women dating younger men (cougar craze) but men dating younger women has been the staple for many years.

But, how young is too young.........ah the solution is easy if you use the age differential calculator *.

X=Y divided by 2 + 7 years

X=HER AGE
Y=YOUR AGE

example: if your 44 then half of 44 is 22+7 = 29(her age)

so the next time a girl says she is 20, she is allowed to date a man up to 26........without it looking creepy. For every year older than 26 the creep factor increases. Hats off to men that are way over the hill that can still bang young chics.........creepy but entertaining.

* this is just a guide........don't take it literal.
 

Nutz

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I wouldn't mind that calculation at the moment.

32/2 = 16. 16 + 7 = 23. That seems about right based on field experience as girls any younger tend to really annoy the hell out of me. At 23 they're out of college, you don't have to contend with the frat boys as much, and they're in the real world for the first time in their lives--many aren't look for commitment because they want to get their career settled. Although there are just as many, if not more, than have to go from relationship to relationship and are rarely if ever single for any length of time.

On the other hand, the chicks younger than 23 are a lot of fun in their own way, just not LTR potential IMO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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