"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I concur. All the really younger ones are lots of fun, but they just get borring after a while. There is a lot to be said for experience.

Unfortunately (well by my thinking) I am involved in a business that employs mostly younger people ( 90% of my staff is under 25). It is really hard for me to meet quality women over that age, so I end up dating women under that age. Now, I am not saying that I date my staff, but they introduce into their friends and things happen.

Age should never really be seen as a problem. The fact that I am older gives me certain qualities that the younger fellows on my staff can't meet. Women are attracted to men with Knowledge, Experience, Confidence, Style, Power/Money, and Maturity. This is a fact. These qualities can only be developed over time, so naturally only an older man can provide them.

While youth, looks, and game definately make it easier, they are not the end all be all. Character is what counts and that is what I provide.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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