"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I concur. All the really younger ones are lots of fun, but they just get borring after a while. There is a lot to be said for experience.

Unfortunately (well by my thinking) I am involved in a business that employs mostly younger people ( 90% of my staff is under 25). It is really hard for me to meet quality women over that age, so I end up dating women under that age. Now, I am not saying that I date my staff, but they introduce into their friends and things happen.

Age should never really be seen as a problem. The fact that I am older gives me certain qualities that the younger fellows on my staff can't meet. Women are attracted to men with Knowledge, Experience, Confidence, Style, Power/Money, and Maturity. This is a fact. These qualities can only be developed over time, so naturally only an older man can provide them.

While youth, looks, and game definately make it easier, they are not the end all be all. Character is what counts and that is what I provide.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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