Dating younger girls

[JdelaSilviera]

How much younger is acceptable for you? I guess this varies with your age of course... I ask this because I recently found myself attracted to a 16 y.o. who could pass by 20 for sure, an absolute stunner perfect skin and body..... and I´m 25... Sure I´ll have to wait she is legal....

It really bothers me that women looks expire so early, otherwise I wouldn´t have this issues . And I´m sure that when I´m 40, i´ll have to go to 20´s.

You may say I´m shallow, but I need to be very attracted physically to a woman, if it were only for personalities I would love men also...

So what´s your take.

 

[J Roc]

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[The Gambler]

The Gambler would never sit down at this table, my friend.

The deck has been stacked against you and the cards are marked.

I don't even want to know how you know this girl.

My advice would be to find a young-looking girl who IS legal. Everyone here knows girls like that... They are out there and can be found.

 

[Scars]

18+ is fair game for me, and still will be even when I'm 40. Depends what you're looking for I guess. 18yr olds are a good easy fvck, but too immature to date (IMO).

Morally, I'd bang a hot 16yr old if I could. But the law speaks a lot louder to me than my morals do.

Edit: And before any bashing starts. 16yr olds are looking a lot older these days as OP illustrated. If you say you've never been sexually attracted to an underage girl then you're lying.

-Scars

 

[felix88]

I attracted to a half mexican 16 years old once, she showed interested and I'm 24. Forgot to ask for phone number because I was busy and those Japanese looked at me like, I don't know but felt really uncomfortable I will not skip other opportunities, never again.

16 is considered legal in Japan though

 

[JdelaSilviera]

As I said, of course I won´t make a move until she is legal (even if I did in pratical terms she is an adult). But the way these girls are dressing nowadays days is just crazy, I find myself more and more attracted to young women. It´s true that women´s body gets their pick of hotness around 16-19. After that, of course there are lots of hotties, but it becomes less common, and these hotties will have already some cellullite, these perfect bodies are almost only found in 18 yo....

If you go to a club where you have 18-21 girls night, and then to another club where you get 22-27, I guarantee that you will notice a big difference in their bodies... which just shows a lack of self discipline/self entitlement from women... it´s not normal to lose their figure so early..

But would you marry, a girl 5-10-20 years younger than you for instance? How far would make you uncomfortable?

 

[floydb25]

25. Can't deal with younger people in general - not just girls. I used to ALWAYS associate with those well below my age, and it didn't work. We had nothing in common. We weren't on the same wavelength in regards to anything. They just wanted to get drunk, be cool, talk ****, bang hotties, cause drama, complain, act stupid, etc. There was no sense, logic, intelligence, or maturity to be had. Certainly no loyalty, either. Jump from group to group, guy to guy, friend to friend...

I think part of it was the Michael Jackson effect - I was such an anti-social, unkept, overweight, unattractive, inept loser in my younger days, and all of my select few friends at the time were cool and popular and had hot chicks, that I wanted to make up for it later. In MJ's case, he never got to experience childhood outside of the fame and media. I never had any young hot girls when I was in high school, so all I went after once I pimped myself up were young hot girls. They have that pure, clean, youthful look, and are definitely "exciting", but I can't deal with the immaturity, drama, games, brattiness, etc. Not all that is shiny is gold. These girls aren't all there.

Same goes for guys. I wanted to be cool and popular, and that whole lifestyle - once I became part of it - went to complete ****, and resulted in a lot of hate / anger / bitterness / resentment for years to come. But, I did accomplish all those things - even though they weren't worth it, and realized I wasn't actually missing out on anything... Except for good things.

But, its not just age - moreso mentality, lifestyle, and maturity. But, most older people who still act young associate with younger people, and try to be cool / popular, and fit in with all the drama, so that's a pretty good giveaway. Mostly, people who never grew up act this way, and attract what they are. Even if they're bar-hopping *****s in their 30s - they're still children, and associate with other children in an adult pub.

While nothing is concrete, you go where the odds are in your favor. Most older people are mature, intelligent, insightful, experienced, thoughtful, etc. That's what I go after. Or associate with for the time being.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I believe any woman under 25 is worth nothing more than to be a receptacle for your c0ck snot.
Young chicks are flakey, selfish and have no concept of decency.

As you can probably tell, my last oneitis was 23 and fvcked me over because she was too young and inexperienced to break up with me in a conventional manner.
She has turned me off seeing women under 25 as potential LTRs.

 

[Cassify]

young girls are eazy prey after a while...

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Younger girls are nice to look at. To "date"? From knowing many of them they have too much nonsense going on. I wouldn't bother.

And would you feel comfortable dating a much younger chick and getting serious? What about meeting their parents and friends? I'd feel weird meeting some chicks parents who's much younger than I am.

What kind of "dating" are we talking about O.P?

 

[Cremasta]

If you're just looking for a shag, then any legal age is fine.

If you're after an LTR, then any more than about 6 or 7 years age difference and you'll be struggling to find things you both have in common.

 

[Zerro]

I set the absolute lower limit at 21, I don't want to have issues of "oh, we can't go there because you're underage" nor am I buying drinks for anyone who can't buy them themselves.

As for relationships though, that cut-off is 24-25-ish. That seems to be the point that many girls finally start to mentally mature into women.

 

[Lloyd.ambert]

I'm older; I have a soft rule that the lady cannot practically be my daughter (32) Physically possible, puberty, it would be 39. I just don't mentally parse possibilities this closely, though. Thirty-two is my soft limit, I don't know what the hard limit is; Perhaps 25? Honestly cannot picture many 20-somethings being too interested in me, though.

 

[bigneil]

How much younger is acceptable for you? I guess this varies with your age of course... I ask this because I recently found myself attracted to a 16 y.o. who could pass by 20 for sure, an absolute stunner perfect skin and body..... and I´m 25...

As long as they are 18, it's totally up to the girl how much younger is acceptable.

When I realized that a girl who I thought was 23 was only 20 I said I was too old for her and she said "Did I say you were too old? DID I???" (she said it as if she were my mom. Things got better thereafter).

Ah... sweet 16. That girl has energy that can heal you. You probably don't even care if you have sex with her if she's just next to you. Elvis never had sex with Priscilla until they married.

When I was 27 I met a 16 year old waitress who served me breakfast at her Grandmothers diner every Saturday morning.

I waited all the way until she was 21 and we finally hooked up and she confessed she had been driving by my house when she was 16, and that she always loved me. I never saw her again though because I had to move away and she had a kid.

Know that this girl will change but she could still be your best relationship someday. Hold her at arms length as long as you can - but don't blow the big opportunity that will come. She'll only lay it out there a few times and you must seize the day.

 

[floydb25]

young girls are eazy prey after a while...

They're easy to manipulate due to emotional immaturity and lack of experience. But, that's not my gig. Rather just not bother with them - than prey on the weak. Leave that to the punk ***** cowards.

Their emotions are definitely all over the place, though. They're really just like children. Don't know much of anything about anything, and are easy to sway. They only think they're adults, and try so hard to act like them. But, you can't be something you're not. They'll always go after the "shiny", and have the high school mentality of wanting to fit in. Status is HUGE for young people. They have no minds of their own, and will follow whatever is popular or in high demand. They can never make up their minds, either. They're definitely all about the emotional rollercoaster, and whatever they consider "hot" and "exciting". Speaking logic or intelligence to these retards is futile.

This again applies to older people who have the same mentality as younger ones, as well. Like, a lot of hot chicks who never had to grow up.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

They're easy to manipulate due to emotional immaturity and lack of experience. But, that's not my gig. Rather just not bother with them - than prey on the weak. Leave that to the punk ***** cowards.

Their emotions are definitely all over the place, though. They're really just like children. Don't know much of anything about anything, and are easy to sway. They only think they're adults, and try so hard to act like them. But, you can't be something you're not. They'll always go after the "shiny", and have the high school mentality of wanting to fit in. Status is HUGE for young people. They have no minds of their own, and will follow whatever is popular or in high demand. They can never make up their minds, either. They're definitely all about the emotional rollercoaster, and whatever they consider "hot" and "exciting". Speaking logic or intelligence to these retards is futile.

This again applies to older people who have the same mentality as younger ones, as well. Like, a lot of hot chicks who never had to grow up.

100% agree.

Floyd when you post I swear I have to check the username as I thought it was me.

 

[juicywa]

So for the guys who said they would do younger women if its legal but didnt state age... if you were in a country and 12 or 13 is legal, you would do it?

 

[doctorj]

^ in a heartbeat, I've always been attracted to young looking/young girls

 

[JD57]

16 is the age of sexual consent in many states.

 

[backseatjuan]

18+, for anything younger I can get pulled to a side by my own hommies and chatted with lot's of persuation. Keep in mind legal age in my country is 16, though legal is not moral and immoral is wrong.