"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dating women who aren't as smart as you

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Have you ever found yourself in a relationship with a girl you are really attracted to, but slowly but surely you realize she is not that bright?

At first you might think: I'm smarter, she's prettier, so it all balances out! It doesn't, at least in my experience. In reality they end up getting annoyed by your brain. They think: "He thinks he's more smarter than I am!" I guess the saying "Water seeks it's own level" applies.

Has anyone dealt with this situation and did it work out for them?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't mind if they aren't book smart, but if they aren't smart enough to get clever jokes/innuendo/sarcasm, then I rarely make it past the first interaction.

Actually, I have a soft spot for book smart girls, who have little common sense. There's something about that combination that gets me going.
 
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girl i'm seeing now is really smart. studying english history and all that. she wants to be an english teacher. smart girls really turn me on. i never date dumb girls.. it's a major turn off. i find myself pretty intelligent and i want equal amount of intelligence in my partner.
 
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bigneil said:
They think: "He thinks he's more smarter than I am!" I guess the saying "Water seeks it's own level" applies.
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Hmm...

;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Note: I was intentionally using bad grammar (more smarter) as a form of humor.
 
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element0 said:
I don't mind if they aren't book smart, but if they aren't smart enough to get clever jokes/innuendo/sarcasm, then I rarely make it past the first interaction.
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This is pretty much my most desired non-physical trait.
 
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ARrocket said:
Somehow I think using "it's" instead of "its" was unintentional ;)
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You got me there. Maybe that b*tch was smarter after all...

Seriously though, the apostrophe is the least of my worries.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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