Hello everyone. about 6 months ago my car was totaled and it looks like i will not be driving for awhile. It realy sucks but theres not much i can do . Its harder for me to get women back over to my place without a car. In the past i would have her meet me at my apartment before we went out then i would invite her in for a bit afterwards and take it from there. Now i'm meeting women at the coffee shop , restuarant ect. and i always end up going home alone. part of it may be because my confidence is not as high , or maby they dont respect me as much but I need to make this work. I'm in college and live in a university town. Alot of people around here are on foot , so i can make this work. My car has been critical to my dating strategy since high school, not just for getting her back to my place but also as the best location for the first kiss so I need to completely rework my strategy. any advise?
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- Thread starter Nevets
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mustfirstregister
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Having a car is an important part of your arsenal for dating. Seriously, I have been dating more with a car than w/o one. So get yourself one. Like you can get a $2K one that is good enough to last you for 4 years.
PectoralisMajor
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no car , oooooooooooo your screwed,
you might need to take the bus to get into town. so what?
you might need to take the bus to get into town. so what?
Thundernuts
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Yeah not having a car sucks, just get something it doesn't have to be a mustang but don't buy a bucket on wheels either. My truck got wrapped around a tree a few months ago, i know how you feel. Just try and remember that yeah it looks bad not being able to drive, but the game is not over no matter what anyone says. I have seen guys with no jobs no cars and no clean clothes bring home some good looking girls. Point is a car doesn't make you a man. And women want a man.