"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dating within the social circle of an ex or previous fling?

Tomo

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Whats your guys thoughts? Murky water you would not try? This new girl I plan, would be the last of my endeavors of those within my university degree. Previously I had one where we are now on good terms. Next came the HB I've talked about in previous posts who I caught kissing another guy. I thought we were on good terms until she deleted me off facebook and looks away awkwardly if I bump into her and say hi. Newest girl I have promised myself I would not try any others after.

What is the worse that could happen? Any tips or previous experience?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oregano

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If you are comfortable with it, go for it, just don't give the old one any attention or talk/ask about her when with friends.

If possible, though, try to hang out with other circles if you have any.
 

Mr Wright

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I've fücked my way through a few social circles in my time. You'd think it causes more problems than it actually does. But in pretty much every case I've experienced and seen from the outside the girls are more likely to turn on each other than you. At the end of the day, they aren't your friends so don't worry about it and just go for it.
 
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