"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dating within the social circle of an ex or previous fling?

Tomo

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Whats your guys thoughts? Murky water you would not try? This new girl I plan, would be the last of my endeavors of those within my university degree. Previously I had one where we are now on good terms. Next came the HB I've talked about in previous posts who I caught kissing another guy. I thought we were on good terms until she deleted me off facebook and looks away awkwardly if I bump into her and say hi. Newest girl I have promised myself I would not try any others after.

What is the worse that could happen? Any tips or previous experience?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oregano

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If you are comfortable with it, go for it, just don't give the old one any attention or talk/ask about her when with friends.

If possible, though, try to hang out with other circles if you have any.
 

Mr Wright

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I've fücked my way through a few social circles in my time. You'd think it causes more problems than it actually does. But in pretty much every case I've experienced and seen from the outside the girls are more likely to turn on each other than you. At the end of the day, they aren't your friends so don't worry about it and just go for it.
 
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