"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kdnash82

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Ok... Here's the deal. I went through an entire year of jumping from girl to girl to girl. Was I lonely, no. Dry spells, no. But I didn't find any substanance with any of those girls.

At one point I even tried to settle down. I was actually faithful to one woman for about 2 months. It was cool at first, but I grew extremely bored. It got to the point where she would come over, and I didn't even wanna have sex. We'd sit there watching tv. If she started to talk about something, I'd just pretend to listen. It was horrible.

Soooo... Here I am 2009. I really don't want to start the same routine again, but I can already find myself jumping back into that mode. Because of that, I signed up to Eharmony.com and Match.com.

My question is, has anyone else ever used these sites? They seem very tempting, but I just don't really see myself spending $100 for 3 months.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've never done ti myself, but from what I've heard, they scam you more often than not. I've heard about guys getting responses, that never go anywhere, and it turns out, that his subscription was about to run out, and that was their way to try to keep him paying money.

Also, half the profiles are fakes. I've heard that girls on there get addicted to the dating process, so they turn into mega AW's. The girls on these sites get literally hundreds of responses, sometimes in a single day. If they wanted to, they could go an a different date every single night. Talk about having options! What do you think this does to their mindset?
 

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Agreed. I was thinking the same exact thing. These girls sit on a site getting hundreds of callers, which blow their ego's out of this world.

Looks like my decision was already made before I even posted the question.
 

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Just make your self stand out. I signed up for match bored one day at work just messing around. I didn't take it seriously and still don't. I go out close to every night, but when I get home it's fun to check it and see if there's any cute girls that are new. I've met 4 girls on there and fvcked them all on the first meeting. I found the best way to meet them is to play AFC so they trust you (Not complimenting and stuff....I mean keeping in contact and what not). It took like a few weeks before I met them just emailing and texting. Don't follow your usual rules about waiting to talk for a few days and sh!t cause IL can drop fast and hard. Seriously AFC it up, earn their trust, meet them. I wouldn't count on it as my primary way of meeting girls, but its fun to mess with in my free time and you can never meet enough girls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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