"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kdnash82

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Ok... Here's the deal. I went through an entire year of jumping from girl to girl to girl. Was I lonely, no. Dry spells, no. But I didn't find any substanance with any of those girls.

At one point I even tried to settle down. I was actually faithful to one woman for about 2 months. It was cool at first, but I grew extremely bored. It got to the point where she would come over, and I didn't even wanna have sex. We'd sit there watching tv. If she started to talk about something, I'd just pretend to listen. It was horrible.

Soooo... Here I am 2009. I really don't want to start the same routine again, but I can already find myself jumping back into that mode. Because of that, I signed up to Eharmony.com and Match.com.

My question is, has anyone else ever used these sites? They seem very tempting, but I just don't really see myself spending $100 for 3 months.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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horaholic

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I've never done ti myself, but from what I've heard, they scam you more often than not. I've heard about guys getting responses, that never go anywhere, and it turns out, that his subscription was about to run out, and that was their way to try to keep him paying money.

Also, half the profiles are fakes. I've heard that girls on there get addicted to the dating process, so they turn into mega AW's. The girls on these sites get literally hundreds of responses, sometimes in a single day. If they wanted to, they could go an a different date every single night. Talk about having options! What do you think this does to their mindset?
 

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Agreed. I was thinking the same exact thing. These girls sit on a site getting hundreds of callers, which blow their ego's out of this world.

Looks like my decision was already made before I even posted the question.
 

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Just make your self stand out. I signed up for match bored one day at work just messing around. I didn't take it seriously and still don't. I go out close to every night, but when I get home it's fun to check it and see if there's any cute girls that are new. I've met 4 girls on there and fvcked them all on the first meeting. I found the best way to meet them is to play AFC so they trust you (Not complimenting and stuff....I mean keeping in contact and what not). It took like a few weeks before I met them just emailing and texting. Don't follow your usual rules about waiting to talk for a few days and sh!t cause IL can drop fast and hard. Seriously AFC it up, earn their trust, meet them. I wouldn't count on it as my primary way of meeting girls, but its fun to mess with in my free time and you can never meet enough girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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