"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dating two girls at the same time?

TonyTheTigerOI

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Alpha... the "if you dont like what I post, dont read it" attitude is crap. And it ruins the forums.

Cheers on dating two girls at once. Are you sleeping with both of them? Do they know you are/arent? In this kind of a situation the SECOND you look unattainable they will both split. When you chase one you'll win her back for a lil while but lose that mystery/challenge for the better part of forever.

Id sleep with them both... when you have sex youre body makes a promise subconciously. Good sex insulates you from a flaky girls random impulses - youll be able to hold on both longer if you sleep with them. Make sure you do it within days of eachother so that neither finds out youve slept with the other first - let them guess who you were with at what time.

As soon as either one starts being flaky, I would "open up" to her... even if its just crappy "Im afraid of dying alone" romantic-comedy drama. When a girl advises you about youre love life - she puts STOCK into youre sexuality. She has a renewed sense of responsibility towards you.

Either way, unless the girls are BI (which, you never know... Ive dated two friends from different schools who I met while they were making out), it cant last for long. Just drag it out, get bragging rights, and make sure youre break ups are either SUPER CLEAN - where youre 'friends' with them afterword... this way girls dont mark you as trouble... or SUPER DIRTY - where you yell nasty things at her in public... this way girls associate you with dominance and sexuality.

Peace.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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