"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dating two girls at the same time?

TonyTheTigerOI

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Alpha... the "if you dont like what I post, dont read it" attitude is crap. And it ruins the forums.

Cheers on dating two girls at once. Are you sleeping with both of them? Do they know you are/arent? In this kind of a situation the SECOND you look unattainable they will both split. When you chase one you'll win her back for a lil while but lose that mystery/challenge for the better part of forever.

Id sleep with them both... when you have sex youre body makes a promise subconciously. Good sex insulates you from a flaky girls random impulses - youll be able to hold on both longer if you sleep with them. Make sure you do it within days of eachother so that neither finds out youve slept with the other first - let them guess who you were with at what time.

As soon as either one starts being flaky, I would "open up" to her... even if its just crappy "Im afraid of dying alone" romantic-comedy drama. When a girl advises you about youre love life - she puts STOCK into youre sexuality. She has a renewed sense of responsibility towards you.

Either way, unless the girls are BI (which, you never know... Ive dated two friends from different schools who I met while they were making out), it cant last for long. Just drag it out, get bragging rights, and make sure youre break ups are either SUPER CLEAN - where youre 'friends' with them afterword... this way girls dont mark you as trouble... or SUPER DIRTY - where you yell nasty things at her in public... this way girls associate you with dominance and sexuality.

Peace.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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