Dating two girls, almost got caught.

[MasterMind02]

Hello, my friend recommended this forum to me and i am a new member here.

So I have been seeing these two girls for about a month now and so far everything has gone great. We have sex a couple times a week (since im pretty busy with school, gym, work) and the other one i see about once a week. (she is religious so we havnt had sex so far, but we have oral, kiss etc..)

The problem is that the first girl im seeing is getting suspicious. I told her shes the only one im dating right now, but when she comes over, i have caught her in the past checking my emails and my cell phone etc...
Another problem is that they both go to the same college as me, i was walking with the 2nd girl in the hallway arm in arm while my 1st one saw me. this time she didnt say hi to me like she usually does.

I havn't confronted her about this, but i am thinking i should. Any ideas as how to reassure her that Im not dating anybody else?
shes coming over on wednesday.

 

[russell]

this is why i don't try to hide the fact that i'm not exclusive with a woman.

i've been dating hb8 for several months now and we both know our relationship is open. i see other people, so does she, but we still have sex a couple times a week, go on dates, and have fun together.

 

[CaptainJ]

Drop one, or you're going to lose both.

 

[Maxtro]

Why did you lie to them?

You should have told them from the very beginning that you don't want to be exclusive. If you want to lie, it's all you.

 

[amoka]

Drop one, or you're going to lose both.

Solution to your problem. Don't try "making up sh!t" else, you'd find it difficult finding another one. Rule # 1: Don't be exclusive if you don't intend to be....

 

[The Logical Player]

Why did you lie to them?

You should have told them from the very beginning that you don't want to be exclusive. If you want to lie, it's all you.

girls in the 21st century can't handle the truth, especially young ones, they will instantly label you a player, and will not want to give up the p@ssy as a result

The issue at hand here is simple - if you are going to be a good player, you make sure of the following:

date girls from different cities/colleges.

never allow a girl access to your phone or internet.

never go somewhere where one of the other girls (or her friends) that you are dating may be.



its fairly simply, you just need to use logic if you want to be a successful player!

 

[MisterMcGee]

You have a double standard LP.

 

[The Logical Player]

You have a double standard LP.

the words "double standard" mean nothing

as a man, all you are obligated to do is to live by your own rules which make you happy

most bs phrases and expressions in the dating game, such as "player" or "double standard" or "chauvanist pig" were created by women who want control, and the #1 thing a real player should do is IGNORE these feminist rules and do what makes HIM happy, as opposed to the feminist agenda

 

[oakraiderz2]

the words "double standard" mean nothing

as a man, all you are obligated to do is to live by your own rules which make you happy

Youre 25, you should understand that double standards exist. Black people dont like when white people are racist to them, but are racist to whites. That, my elder is a double standard. Dont be so foolish to claim such a silly philosophy to life for MEN only. I also think people who use the word player are tool bags.

 

[Captain]

You screwed up by lying, saying you were only dating one.

She got into your email; you shouldn't have given her your password.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I wouldnt say you screwed up. You just might loose one of your ho's. All ho's are replaceable...

If you want come out and say your seeing other girls. Or tell the suspicious girl to get lost if she is gonna have "doubts" about you.