dating to GF

[smileydts]

What do you do when you've dated a girl a few times and you think there's relationship potential? Is this the kind of thing that just happens in time, or should the guy take certain steps to making it happen? It seems like bringing up the subject is a little too needy and puts the pressure on her unnecessarily, but what can a DJ do to push things in the direction he wants?

Or would he just get over his oneitis and stop worrying? In college these kind of things just happen, but how about later on?

 

[Sometimes]

Have sex with her

Have sex with her.
You then get converted from "some guy im seeing"
to "some special friend guy im seeing
Then have more sex with her
she develops feelings for you
Then you get converted "maybe boyfriend"
then she will ask you
"where are we going in this relationship?"
then you can propose what you want

 

[get1]

smiledts, I tend to agree with sometimes..Don't come on too strong and wait until she asks you! my rationale for this is that every time in the past I've pushed to move from something casual to gf status it doesn't go there. they usually aren't yet attached enough and it sets off the "needy" alarm bells! All my rel's have been with girls who I started seeing, built up attraction, slept with, built up more attraction then they bring it up with me. Keep her on her toes and make her think that if she doesn't lock you in someone else will otherwise she'll go elsewhere!