Dating Tips/ Ideas For NEWBS

[Daniel1099]

I have been noticing a lot of guys asking where to take girls, and what to do and stuff...

Here is what i do when i am interested in a female:

**This pertains to ages 15-19**

Most of you guys here are probably former AFC's are still have not fully developed your inner game...

DO NOT take her to miniture golf...i know its an action date, but it gets very boring, and repetitive...same with bowling, movies are weird, picnics are very weird, basically anything is weird the first time you guys are going on a date...

The best thing to do is take her out with your friends out into town, go with other people, make it a group date, but focus your game skills on her...its also good because if you start feeling like your coming off ass needy...start talking to your buddies or something....

tell her to invite a friend, and make it a fun outgoing thing.

now with her friend, and your friends...miniture golf sounds a lot more fun, so does bowling, hookah bars, movies. etc.

get close to her friends, talk to them, flirt with them. it will get her jealous...

then as you grow close with her on this first outing...

it wont be as weird to go 1 V 1 the next time.

 

[Analyzeit]

I Agree Fully, Anything at this age is weird an awkward, i've heard girls say to there friends a lot "That was the most Awkward/Worse time i've ever had" and its just coz its not relaxed enough especially if your just becoming a DJ (which takes a long time)

And Friend just keep things level, and normal, i have a mate who i can have a conversation with about anything anywhere and a good interesting, hes good to have around, your pretty much sayin bring a wingman, and get her to bring her wing"woman" lol

It kills the awkwardness, its what we need

 

[Daniel1099]

exactly.

and bring a friends with equal social status...not someone that is going to bring you down...someone outgoing and fun, and you and him can crack jokes and make the ladies laugh...

 

[eaglez1177]

Great advice. NEVER, go on a 1 on 1 date the first time. It always ends up being mad awkward. Get your friends to go with you so everyone can have fun, and then once you feel really comfortable with the girl, then you can do movies or something with just you and her.

 

[Captain]

If you bring a bunch of friends, it's not a date. You can invite her to a party you're going to, or bring her along with a group of mutual friends, but that's still not a date.

If a 1 on 1 date is awkward for you, you need to go out on more of them so you can practice so they get less awkward.

 

[Analyzeit]

This is high school forum we practically are practicing, and your right its not a date, but what it is, is a mack session, and just hanging out and she'll be more interested in you. and then also it'll give you something to talk about on the first actual date

No its not a date i agree with you, but doing what he said helps, a lot.

I did what he said to do about a week ago and we still have conversations about all the funny things we did, and it was not awkward at all except when her parents came home lmao

 

[Daniel1099]

exactly man.

just keep doin your thang thang.

haha