Dating the girl I want

[cinephile]

Finally, I think I have gotten the interest of the girl I want. It has taken nearly a year, with lots of detours and moments of frustration, but it has definately been worth it. While some would argue that I have wasted my time, I disagree. My reasoning is that while there are plenty of attractive and interesting women out there, only a very few hold my interest deeply, so I am going spend my time on them and not the maybes.

What I my intentions with this post is to track my success or failure with her. I will post every few days on whats up, my basic strategy, and her reaction. Hopefully, this will let me stay on target better.

Background info on her and the situation

She used to work for me about a year and a half ago. We got along great and our coworkers always though she was trying to get at me. Never got with her then because I don't date direct reports. Anyway, she quit about 6 months ago. Tried to set up something, but never got an answer from her so I just started dating other women. Anyway, she came by just yesterday, gave me her number, and made it obvious that she wants to go out. I intend to call her on Monday ( first day off) and see where it goes from there.

All coments are appreciated. So go ahead and flame if you feel its necessary.

 

[DeathDealer]

Why are you posting this? Do you think you are so awesome and sh1t? Keep your own drama in your head buddy boy, this place is for helping each other and not listening to some weenie boy.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It's taken a year and you think she is interested? Dude, she ain't, that's not how women operate.

 

[AverageFC]

I agree with the others.

 

[Pancho]

Good luck man....set up a date and show her a good time. If you've been dating other women, good for you...waiting for one person is too risky, I say.

So you have a number.....call her up, take her to do something fun, don't be too excited on the date and ask her for a relationship like a chump and you will be fine. Keep it short, keep it light, keep it fun.

Good luck Cineophile

Pancho

 

[cinephile]

Thanks homies for the great vote of confidence. I appreciate it.

Maybe it is just me, but I think one of the big issues about being a DJ is not to settle for anything less than the best. Yeah, maybe it has taken a while, but I feel it is worth it. I would rather work hard, be patient, and get a 10, than be lazy and have a bunch of 6's.

Also, I created this thread to test out in real time my strategy and see how well it would work. It is really easy for most of the posters here to go on about theory but I want to read about things that have field tested and work. Here i intend to detail what I did and what worked and/or failed. Even if it does'nt work out, I can at least learn from my mistakes and correct them in the future.

There are all kinds of ways to be a DJ. What is important is not so much your technique or looks but your goals and desire to fufill them.

Thanks for the comments anyway.

 

[Climax]

cinephile: dont worry about it, some ppl on these forums have some sexual frustration that they need to get rid of/take out... ignore them, and i look forward to hearing how it goes for you in the future... goodluck...


Laterz...

 

[cinephile]

Call Results

So I when ahead and gave her ring today. It was not quite what I expected. I opened with " Hey Troublemaker, miss me." and she was very receptive, telling me about her day and other asorted nonsense.

So then, I tell her about how I will be going to Brazil in three months and how excited I am. Then for no reason at all she starts talking about taxes. I go WTF?. Brazil has got to be more interesting than a W2. The only response I could think of was "Well, when you get your return back, you will need to take me out some place expensive." She replied " That's a great idea. Let me take you out Sunday!!". So I guess I have a date by default. So we will see how it goes.

 

[nzalan]

Sounds to me like she wants you to do her tax return for her, and she's buttering you up for it.

Good luck though.

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: Call Results

Originally posted by cinephile
So I when ahead and gave her ring today. It was not quite what I expected. I opened with " Hey Troublemaker, miss me." and she was very receptive, telling me about her day and other asorted nonsense.

So then, I tell her about how I will be going to Brazil in three months and how excited I am. Then for no reason at all she starts talking about taxes. I go WTF?. Brazil has got to be more interesting than a W2. The only response I could think of was "Well, when you get your return back, you will need to take me out some place expensive." She replied " That's a great idea. Let me take you out Sunday!!". So I guess I have a date by default. So we will see how it goes.

Does she have children? If so...she probably is like me and gets an insane tax refund with Earned Income Credit. I LOVE tax time. I usually get over 4k federal and my state has EIC and Renters Rebate. If she has kids, she probably just found out she's getting several thousand back...and that's always more exciting than talking to someone.

 

[Panda 2000]

Re: Re: Call Results

Originally posted by Wyldfire .
..and that's always more exciting than talking to someone. [/B]

No, not always.