"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dating single mom(i know bad idea) for 6monts and extremely sick of her kid what do?

SeriousBlack

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started off as FWB with this girl and never planned on being in a relationship with her, but after having sex a bunch of times and hanging out alot blah blah i started catching feelings so we eventually got into a relationship (i know HUGE mistake)

i made it clear from the beginning of the relationship that i was NOT going to take on the father role for her kid, and that im going to be in a relationship with her but not her kid and she was okay with it.

whenever im around the kid i just ignore it like 99% of the time tbh(yea i know im a scumbag). the relationship has been great, lots of good sex, shes really loyal and loves me alot blah blah, she has low expectations and i berley spend any money on her and never spend money on her kid and shes perfectly okay with it.

things are great between me and my girl no problems at all, the problem is her kid, i used to get annoyed being around it and thought over time itd get better but its only gotten worse, i literally dread spending the weekend with her at this point because i know im gonna have to be around her annoying ass kid and it stresses me out..

whenever its just me and my girl things are completely perfect...she has sole custody so i dont get any weekends alone with her.

what do i do? i really wish i could just go back to being FWB but i dont thinks that possible at this point. should i just end it with her? and if so how? she literally hasnt done anything wrong which is why i havent ended things already...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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