"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dating question.......

Intrakit98

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Is it wrong for a 19 yr. old guy to date a 22 yr old girl. I mean I know that the age difference is small, but still seems like it should be the other way around.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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search1ng

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wtf? no. i'm 19 and my g/f is 22, it's fine... unless maybe you're asian, they have that age difference thing. Still it'll be fine, might be talk for a few weeks, just play it cool.
 

War Against Betaism

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search1ng said:
wtf? no. i'm 19 and my g/f is 22, it's fine... unless maybe you're asian, they have that age difference thing. Still it'll be fine, might be talk for a few weeks, just play it cool.
I'm Filipino, when I was 18 I dated a 23 year old Vietnamese woman, age difference doesn't mean sh1t for any race.
 
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