"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Duke

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Why is it that girls always use the self-pic of them driving their car for their dating profile? Seems this is a very common thing. Whats the psychology behind this type of pic? Is it them trying to subconsciously say "i'm in control of me"??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bluenorther

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They're usually wearing huge sunglasses, too.
I used to rate the new pics at PoF and I'd reject most of them for sunglasses, bathroom mirror shots, family group pics, pics with their children, showing off tattooes, showing off boyfriends, long distance pics and so on.
I can never understand why anyone would post a witness protection pic-- sitting in a dark room, in front of a window. All you see is an outline. Idiots.
Sometimes a self-porn pic would show up, but if I tried to "save" it, it only came out as code!
 

Peaks&Valleys

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^^^^Nice list but you forgot about the yoga pic of them in the crane position or whatever fvck it's called.

The car pick always baffled me though, not sure what that's all about.
 

zekko

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Peaks&Valleys said:
The car pick always baffled me though, not sure what that's all about.
I'm going places and I've got things to do? I'm so busy I don't have time to take a picture in the house, I have to do it while I'm in my car on my way to somewhere? My life is full and exciting?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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