"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dating out of ur league, and way too cool for school??????

joe45

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what does it exactly mean one says he/she is way out of my league -does it mean way too good looking and the other person is avg looking- give me examples and what does it really mean.do ppl date ppl out of their league

also what does the term "way too cool for school mean"-they had it on a game school-nerds, jocks and then way too cool for school-which crowd were u in. i been called that before but never knew what it meant.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Looks/social status mostly.
 

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It's high school dating linguo. You're 24. Don't worry about it :)
 

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"out of your league" is a bit of a dated expression which used to refer to levels of classiness.

In the 21st century we call the "league" by the misnomre Socio-Economic Level .

Since a good "player" can play many games at the same time in many different environments -- he can shift his perceived socio-economic level by a few degrees in either direction.

It is hard though to shift into the country club scene when you're driving an 82 Buick Century wagon while wearing your Levi 501s and a pair of riding boots.

Play in the league that you compete best in and you'll find more success. Play in the higher leagues to advance your skills.

It's like football -- Podunk State plays the likes of UCLA to get better not to win. They play Lower Podunk State to win.
 
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