Heretolearn
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dating - no mobile phone, no car, no money spent :)
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hats off to you, man.
I'm surrounded, day in, day out, by people make a fraction of your salary but who spend themselves into the ground in order to present the appearance of someone in your income bracket.
You obviously have a sound head on your shoulders and I would be flabbergasted if you were to tell me women are you #1 priority. I'm sure they are on your list of "to-do" items but I doubt your life revolves around pu$$y. Which is fine!
My guess is that you are of strong character (especially for your age) and that even though you may be quirky about money and spending it, you have your $hit together and you are set for a while.
Don't change a thing unless you want to! Don't go buying phones other crap just because you wanna hook up with bytches. Hook up in spite of having those material must-haves and I can guarantee you the chicks you do get will be keepers. Your state of being filters out the riff-raff
I'm surrounded, day in, day out, by people make a fraction of your salary but who spend themselves into the ground in order to present the appearance of someone in your income bracket.
You obviously have a sound head on your shoulders and I would be flabbergasted if you were to tell me women are you #1 priority. I'm sure they are on your list of "to-do" items but I doubt your life revolves around pu$$y. Which is fine!
My guess is that you are of strong character (especially for your age) and that even though you may be quirky about money and spending it, you have your $hit together and you are set for a while.
Don't change a thing unless you want to! Don't go buying phones other crap just because you wanna hook up with bytches. Hook up in spite of having those material must-haves and I can guarantee you the chicks you do get will be keepers. Your state of being filters out the riff-raff
Heretolearn
Master Don Juan
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thanks so much! Fantastic to hear that. Up until now it has been great but it has been a year since my last break up and NO one has met standards, or have but have had bfs/husbands. This is giving me paranoia and I really examining what part has to change to change my outcomes.
Great to hear your feedback! thanks again!
Great to hear your feedback! thanks again!