"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dating Multiple women, how often to contact them??

jackhamma

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I am very rusty and need help getting into the correct mindset on communicating. I am dating a few girls that are 21-23 years old. I am 28. I see these girls an average of once a week and we have a lot of fun. Sleeping with all of them already, and once again have a lot of fun.

3 weeks in I start to get impatient. These girls work, go to class etc. so they are busy, heck I am busy but I tend to have a habit where I start to reach out more then I should (because we are sleeping together frequently etc.)

How often should I reach out and text to make a joke, or comment on a funny photo they post or just put a smile on there face.

The one girl I know is REALLY into me. Feeling is mutual but I just don't want to screw it up by engaging and reaching out to often.
Example: Called last night and she never called back. She then called me today just to say hello but had no idea that I called her yesterday lol. Would I of mentioned that I called??

What is my general rule of thumb? How often when dating a few women at a time should you reach out?

Thanks Guys!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AllDay85

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With so many options, let them reach out to you. Save your Friday and Saturday's for your best two girls. Avoid most texting. Stay busy.
 
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