"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dating Multiple women, how often to contact them??

jackhamma

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I am very rusty and need help getting into the correct mindset on communicating. I am dating a few girls that are 21-23 years old. I am 28. I see these girls an average of once a week and we have a lot of fun. Sleeping with all of them already, and once again have a lot of fun.

3 weeks in I start to get impatient. These girls work, go to class etc. so they are busy, heck I am busy but I tend to have a habit where I start to reach out more then I should (because we are sleeping together frequently etc.)

How often should I reach out and text to make a joke, or comment on a funny photo they post or just put a smile on there face.

The one girl I know is REALLY into me. Feeling is mutual but I just don't want to screw it up by engaging and reaching out to often.
Example: Called last night and she never called back. She then called me today just to say hello but had no idea that I called her yesterday lol. Would I of mentioned that I called??

What is my general rule of thumb? How often when dating a few women at a time should you reach out?

Thanks Guys!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AllDay85

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With so many options, let them reach out to you. Save your Friday and Saturday's for your best two girls. Avoid most texting. Stay busy.
 
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