Dating multiple college girls, and not getting caught!

[spiegel549]

I have recently been toning down the bar scene and been hanging around a few very popular colleges that my younger buddies go to. House parties, pool parties, rainbow parties (I wish) and I feel that the college scene is great to meet and date multiple women but its so easy to get "caught." So to speak..

Heres the thing, I am looking to smash everything that walks UNTIL I can find me a girl that I am really into and vice versa I honestly rather have a solid hot babe to smash that I can get all the time. Then chasing multiple broads..

After applying all of your DJ skills, being the Alpha male, having a good time and being yourself. You start to meet multiple college babes..you take one on a date and then maybe you wanna hang with a different girl that weekend...but I always seem to run into all the girls I am taking out all at one party lol....

I am really digging this chick I am taking out tonight, now after I see her depending on how it goes I plan on doing my own thing for the weekend and meeting other college girls. So I want to roll out to another big college party over the weekend but I know for a FACT I am going to bump into the girl I just took on a date lol...

Long story short I am trying to figure out my game plan here..how I need to arrange/work this **** out. I can't very well be at a party with 3 girls I am taking on dates...and I dig the one I am taking out tonight the most...so she can't see me making out with other broads...that will not work out too well..

Any ideas, or tips how to play this better?

 

[Harry Wilmington]

You're looking at this from the wrong perspective. You're making it a situation where you're putting pressure on yourself to appear as though you're being monogamous with any of these girls you're dating, when really you should be putting the pressure on THEM to win you over enough to want to be with them only.

The "dating" phase is what I call the "researching a car" phase. When you're looking to buy a new car, you don't just take one out for a test drive and say "that's it, that's the one!" You test out multiple cars before you make a decision. Do you feel BAD about trying out all these different cars? Of course not!

Soooo... when you take girl A to the party and girl B runs into you, ACT LIKE IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL - 'CAUSE REALLY, IT ISN'T. Say hi, then say, "oh hey, girl B, this is girl A..." and that's it.

Now, let's say girl A asks you, "so, who was that girl?" Don't do what most guys do and try to lie - instead, be like "oh, just a girl I went out with a couple of weeks ago." At this point, girl A may start throwing a fit - which is actually a GOOD thing 'cause it means she likes you, but can't figure out why you'd see any one other than her.

At which point, you say: "yeah - right now I'm dating around to find that one girl I can really kick it with. Until I find her, though, I have to keep going on dates with different ones (make it sound like it's a drag)." If she gets mad, just say, "hey, I thought you were doing the same thing as me - after all, we just started dating, I figured you were still seeing other guys too!"

At this point, she may give herself away - "No, I'm not seeing anyone else at the moment" - at which point you know she's starting to fall for you. Then you just play dumb - "Oh - I just figured you were dating other guys to do what i'm doing, which is narrow it down to the best choice." Then, throw a lil' game her way - "Well, right now I'm thinking you're pretty cool to be around, hopefully I'll get to know you a little bit more so I can be really sure."

That's pretty much it. I don't even care these days if girls know I'm dating other girls - they're smart and bound to sniff it out, and when they do I just tell 'em we're just dating; it's not technically a relationship; and until we have a title of some kind going I (and she - even though they normally won't) can date as many girls as I want to make a better decision. Don't let them put a guilt trip on you.

 

[J Roc]

getting caught? you sound like you are cheating on a girlfriends. you are a single man who is dating multiple women. keep it 100 with these females from the beginning so you dont have to creep around.

 

[marmel75]

Dude, this isn't your girlfriend. It will likely up their interest, especially if they consider the other girl good looking. Women are fiercely competetive with each other. You think they get all dressed up and go out to look good for guys? Wrong. They do that to look better than the other women that are there.