dating long distance - need help please!

[DJArlington]

guys, i started dating this girl on january 1st of this year and she lives four hours away. we are head over heels for each other. the problem is that she has a type of job that doesn't allow her much flexibility in terms of when she can talk to me on the phone and stuff, and also it's hard for her to come see me . she calls me all the time and emails me, but it's tough. also the distance is tough, i wanna see her all the time and i can't. what should i do ? Should i take a risk and move closer to her ? i'm scared i'm gonna lose her cause she thinks that i'm going to get tired of not seeing her, and she thinks that i'm the only person that gives in our relationship when that is totally not true. what should i do ? help!

 

[Royal Elite]

Just enjoy the newness of the relationship. Dont make any major decisions until at least april or may, this way the newness of the relationship will be past and you will be able to think clearly. Newness is always exciting and allows you to overlook flaws, but once that stage passes the truth becomes obvious. Be patience and stop trying to skip stages and rush things.

 

[Thundercat]

Long Distance relationships never really work unless the two people are able to see other people, and then they're doomed anyway.

If you guys are really in love, have her move closer to you.

Thundercat

 

[baracus]

Long distance relationships don't work. Plus, you've only known her since Jan 1! You're a complete moron and a loser to be thinking about moving closer to her.

Prophecy:
It is destiny that this relationship will perish into oblivion.


Next patient, please.