Dating Korean Woman

[Reed247]

I have been dating a Korean 24 year old girl for about 9 months. She is a christian and since has claimed it is against religion to have sex. We had partial intimacy after I bought her a black peal necklace on Christmas. (Am I paranoid about gold diggers?)...
I had a terrible experience with a Korean girl a year before who was in college and ended up being a real escort in NYC (prostitute). I expressed some of my paranoia to her which made her extremely upset for a while. She forgave me. This girl is FROM KOREA and I know the values are a lot different but she seems to be getting westernized going to these night clubs every weekend. It pisses me off because she wears sexy mini skirts and heels and drinks. She acts like Ms. Christian whenever I get her in the bedroom. I thought at first she was doing it to get married but she told me she does not want to marry for a while! She also is a huge fan of "sex in the city" which pisses me off even more!!! Why not have sex if you love the damn show!!!
I thought she was trying to control me with sex but she doesn't seem to want marriage or money from me. She claims to have rich parents in South Korea.
Does she sound like a waste of time or what?

BTW I have never had a problem with sex until this girl...But in a way it excites me because it seems challenging but then a waste of time at the same time. Is it? She pushes this christianity thing a lot, and even prays before meals when we eat out (silently with her eyes closes)

I love her but she's just a big mystery sexually.
Why wouldn't she have sex?
Anybody know about ((KOREAN)) women (not asian women)???

 

[penkitten]

dude, maybe she really is a christian....

 

[Reed247]

korean women

Yeah she could be, but what gets me are these frequent visits to trendy nightclubs, drinking, and sexy outfits? Oh yeah forgot..."sex and the city"

 

[fanren]

there arent any biblical rules against drinking and going to night clubs so i dont think shes being a hypocrit in that sense

 

[Alpine]

Forget nationality, that's irrelevant.

It's nonsense to put up with that sh1t in this day and age.

Girlz who play this card too long definately deserve the elbow.

What you gonna do wait until you get married or something to find out she's sh1te in bed, no thank you missy.

Move on, if you keep hoping you are a chump in denial.

 

[Papi Jack]

Originally posted by Alpine
Forget nationality, that's irrelevant.

It's nonsense to put up with that sh1t in this day and age.

Girlz who play this card too long definately deserve the elbow.

What you gonna do wait until you get married or something to find out she's sh1te in bed, no thank you missy.

Move on, if you keep hoping you are a chump in denial.

Bro, i'd have to agree with that. We're in the 21st century. Work on yourself and get you a girl that doesn't give you that kind of crap. Let a christian chump put up with her.

Peace out

 

[Reed247]

Korean girl

One more thing she does that ticks me off.
She likes to try to take control of the relationship by seeing me when it is convienient for her.
For instance, We will have a friday night date and she will call 2 hours before and ask to meet saturday. She did that about 3 times. (out of 9 months) but still.
I just think a girl christian or not should have sex. Especially her because she goes to places like Miami and wears bikinis on the beach and parties at clubs all night, always talking about trendy crap...girls like that always have sex so I just can't figure why she would be holding sex over my head unless she does it because she is cheating on me with a sugar daddy who is paying her rent. I really have no way of knowing...I always suspect maybe she is seeing an older man who takes her shopping, and gets sex in return.
She probably doesn't get horny with me because she knows she can get sex from somebody else.

BTW these are my paranoid suspicions. I really have no way of knowing even though we see each other a lot...Girls today are evil, sneaky, and will do anything they can to get something they want in life.

Why would she not want to marry me unless she thinks I am to young?? Why would any young girl say she doesn't want to marry?

I mean it's been 9 months...

I am not in a rush to marry believe me, I just find it weird she doesn't want to. It's the whole idea of her not wanting to.

I mean, I want to have the romance with her and the attention of a beautiful young girl, but I get mad about the sex part...I like her company
Don't you guys like the company and attention of a beautiful girl?...Is it really all about sex?

 

[saminex]

maybe she is a christian and wants to wait for marrige.....why don;t you just confront her with an ultimate, like put out or get out.

 

[Luveno]

I find it amazing how people pick and choose what parts of their religion they want to follow: in other words, they do what services them.

Sure, you can't screw prior to marriage in christianity(catholicism anyway) but you also can't go acting like a big temptress either.

She's being a hypocrite. Her withholding sex isn't about her religion, its about the control she's been exerting over you the past 9 months.

You've gone too long to actually do anything about this now. If you give her the ultimatum my bet is that she leaves to "teach you a lesson"

Just call her, end it , and when she asks why tell her its because she doesn't want to have sex.
Thats it.

 

[segam]

GIRLS don't want to have sex if:
she's really folowing the religion 'n traditions
she's doesn't want it with you
she's not a virgin 'n afraids of bein' discovered after a sex
she's has another sex-partner

 

[spider_007]

9 MONTHS EHHH

YOU SURE KNOW HER A WHOLE LOT

 

[Reed247]

Korean girl

I agree that I should let go. It is amazing how beautiful this Korean girl is. I think I am in love with her presence. Although I can date any other girl, and just as attractive, I find myself intrigued by her. I've also invested 9 months and she has pushed HARD this Christianity thing. But still continues to go out and party. I mean it's totally insane. She let me get some tit action after I got her the Christmas gift though. She can't go back on that. Is it really to late after 9 months?
I was told Korean girls like to be told what to do, and they like bluntness.
I've noticed whenever I have her around in my bedroom I don't force it with her, I am gentle. Maybe I should be a little more aggressive.
I know guys would say "that chump" but seriously, if you have spent 9 months with a girl, she has said she loved you, you said the same, but no sex? it's hard.

 

[Zhen]

Do her in the a$$. I've heard somewhere that hardcore Christians are 4x as likely to give head and do anal as people who are non-religious.

Although on the other hand not this girl since she's asian and probably just a tease

 

[Reed247]

Korean girl

I was going to dump her after she refused sex, and then she got upset and emotional, so maybe it's true.

 

[Reed247]

korean girls

Yeah, I mean this is my secord korean girl. They are so beautiful. If you dont know look on the net at korean models. This girl is just always playing games and avoids sex at all cost, she is FROM korea but she hangs out with these japanese girls who met met and I think they influence her behavior. In many ways she is just to immature for me...24 but she is just so immature. I am not allowed to show my emotions at all to her or she will just think I am a weak man.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Re: korean girls

Originally posted by Reed247
Yeah, I mean this is my secord korean girl. They are so beautiful. If you dont know look on the net at korean models. This girl is just always playing games and avoids sex at all cost, she is FROM korea but she hangs out with these japanese girls who met met and I think they influence her behavior. In many ways she is just to immature for me...24 but she is just so immature. I am not allowed to show my emotions at all to her or she will just think I am a weak man.

You sound like you're surprised that she's so immature. Do you mean to tell me that you actually believed that "girls mature faster than guys BS"? It's just another anti-men feminazi/lesbian brainwashing like how society tries to make men out as sex-crazed pigs when we all know how much women enjoy sex as well.

 

[Reed247]

korean girls

Women have sex and I don't care what country they are from. I told her that is bullshyt that she is a virgin and doesn't have sex. She does, because she has a double life I suspect. My basic attitude is just get a new girl because there are plenty who will have sex and won't play some out of date feminist control game. I am probably one of the few men who put up with it because I like the company of this beautiful chick. American men do not put up with that crap but especially asian men who treat their women like second class citizens. Because they are in asia, especially in Korea.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Bro, i'd have to agree with that. We're in the 21st century. Work on yourself and get you a girl that doesn't give you that kind of crap. Let a christian chump put up with her.

Please keep your Anti-Christ sermons off of this forum. This community is for everyone, not matter what religion. It's highly offensive.

I'm a devout Christian and I can guarrantee you I can probably pull more chicks in an afternoon than you could in a year.

 

[Craig Reeves]

I have been dating a Korean 24 year old girl for about 9 months. She is a christian and since has claimed it is against religion to have sex. We had partial intimacy after I bought her a black peal necklace on Christmas. (Am I paranoid about gold diggers?)...
I had a terrible experience with a Korean girl a year before who was in college and ended up being a real escort in NYC (prostitute). I expressed some of my paranoia to her which made her extremely upset for a while. She forgave me. This girl is FROM KOREA and I know the values are a lot different but she seems to be getting westernized going to these night clubs every weekend. It pisses me off because she wears sexy mini skirts and heels and drinks. She acts like Ms. Christian whenever I get her in the bedroom. I thought at first she was doing it to get married but she told me she does not want to marry for a while! She also is a huge fan of "sex in the city" which pisses me off even more!!! Why not have sex if you love the damn show!!!
I thought she was trying to control me with sex but she doesn't seem to want marriage or money from me. She claims to have rich parents in South Korea.
Does she sound like a waste of time or what?

BTW I have never had a problem with sex until this girl...But in a way it excites me because it seems challenging but then a waste of time at the same time. Is it? She pushes this christianity thing a lot, and even prays before meals when we eat out (silently with her eyes closes)

I love her but she's just a big mystery sexually.
Why wouldn't she have sex?
Anybody know about ((KOREAN)) women (not asian women)???

Dude, you're acting like such an AFC! You're acting so flippin' NEEDY, man! "Oh, I just NEED SEX SO BAD". Quit being so needy and you'll have a far better chance of getting what you want from her.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Craig Reeves
Please keep your Anti-Christ sermons off of this forum. This community is for everyone, not matter what religion. It's highly offensive.

I'm a devout Christian and I can guarrantee you I can probably pull more chicks in an afternoon than you could in a year.

You're over reacting. As a Christian as well, I can say objectively that he didn't say anything that deserves the description of an "anti-christ" sermon. It honestly was not offensive. People are too sensitive these days. Get a grip.

You also need to grow up. The second half of your response was basically a "my d1ck is bigger than your d1ck" type of response I would expect from a 15 year old.