"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don Juan
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Ok to make this short, I went out with this girl last week & it looked like everything went well.
We textd a few times after the date,just to see how she was doing the next day. I called her a few days after but she didn't pick up so I left her a short message for her to call me when she had time. Later that night I got a text from her saying that " Hey sorry ive been so busy with work.I'm really tired I'll talk to you another time"
Should I just for get about her now or maybe try calling her again in a few days?

when she said "i'll talk to you another time" I felt that pretty means "it's over"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well she hasn't gotten back to me yet & that was 3-4 days ago.
Am I suposto call her back? or wait for her to get back to me?
 
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