"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok to make this short, I went out with this girl last week & it looked like everything went well.
We textd a few times after the date,just to see how she was doing the next day. I called her a few days after but she didn't pick up so I left her a short message for her to call me when she had time. Later that night I got a text from her saying that " Hey sorry ive been so busy with work.I'm really tired I'll talk to you another time"
Should I just for get about her now or maybe try calling her again in a few days?

when she said "i'll talk to you another time" I felt that pretty means "it's over"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well she hasn't gotten back to me yet & that was 3-4 days ago.
Am I suposto call her back? or wait for her to get back to me?
 
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