"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating guru for younger women

Satan Psycho

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The last time I posted to this forum I was a young man. That was many years ago. I remember reading about a dating guru for older men who want to date younger women. This is back in the day when most people didn't even have cell phones. I was wondering if anyone knows who I'm talking about or... if anyone can recommend a good dating guru for this. Doesn't have to be free. Or any other guidance.

Thanks in advance and good to be back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Suave88

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The last time I posted to this forum I was a young man. That was many years ago. I remember reading about a dating guru for older men who want to date younger women. This is back in the day when most people didn't even have cell phones. I was wondering if anyone knows who I'm talking about or... if anyone can recommend a good dating guru for this. Doesn't have to be free. Or any other guidance.

Thanks in advance and good to be back.
Pass me the guru contact info.
 
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