"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating Granola/Shakra-Type Women

ThisNThat

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I have to say, I attract these kind of women, because they seem to care less about superficial things like looks, but...when having attempted to date them...most tend to kind of be "out there" when it comes to believing in "vibes, shakra's, etc".

They are cool to hang with and you have to take them with a grain of salt sometimes depending on their level of fanaticism on this belief.

Last one I dated, I did give her kudos for purely living green by eating healthy, using linen only (no paper towels), and no plastic containers (only glass). Nice figure from yoga.

Anyhow, anyone here experienced dating these kind of ladies?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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They're usually much more sexually free.
 
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