Dating girls that are better looking than you.

[mahon83050]

How do you guys feel about this topic?

I consider myself a 7-7.5. I am tall (6'0), physically fit with a cute/average face.

Girls that I find really good looking and that I would think every other guy finds really good looking I tend to stay from (the 9's-10's)

Point being, I guess I care too much what people think and don't like drawing attention to myself. I don't like people thinking,,,what is that girl doing with him.

Anyone else feel this way?

I think we are better off dating people in are attractiveness range. Anything above that would lead to insecurity.

 

[DJDamage]

You'r supposed to date girls that are better looking then you. Your looks alone are not the sole indictative of the reason why a woman is attracted to you. You may get your foot at the door faster if you are better looking but her interest level's in you will flatter fast if you are not confident in being a man and acting like one.

Point being, I guess I care too much what people think and don't like drawing attention to myself. I don't like people thinking,,,what is that girl doing with him.

First off you shouldn't care what anyone think but what you think. Second off I rather for people to look in awe and think how the fvck he was able to lend this babe as oppose to them shrugging their shoulders as if I was suppose to settle for someone within my supposed "range".

 

[zerocelcius]

Date who you want not by what they look like, it is your world. By picking girls on how you think other guys will look at you seems a little fruity. It actually seems your picking the other guys opinion and not the girl.

 

[mahon83050]

Date who you want not by what they look like, it is your world. By picking girls on how you think other guys will look at you seems a little fruity. It actually seems your picking the other guys opinion and not the girl.

Maybe I am just afraid people will look at me alot and have some jealous guys start fights with me.

 

[Grimple]

Sure, it's easy to say not to care and all that jazz.. but I know what it's like to be in that situation and it's not exactly that easy. I find myself only attracting girls "in my range" too. I get somewhat intimidated by the hotter ones. If I know I'm better/as good looking as the girl I'm chatting up then of course I am going to act more confident.. mainly because I really am. But put me next to a hotter girl I find myself foaling up a lot more. I guess just kind of work your way.. it's all psychological. When you start seeing hott woman try and find a flaw about them upon first noticing them, and whenever you feel like you are losing touch because they're too good for you try and remember that flaw. I haven't really tried this yet.. but it might work. I think I'm going to start trying it tomorrow.

But good luck.

 

[SamePendo]

Did you guys go to school? Women and men are NOT alike. We are born differently. Women are made up of a mix of chemicals that make them attractive. The mix of chemicals in men is geared towards other things, like action, to protect that sexy female from any danger. That's why men are attracted towards sexy women and women are attracted to men of action.

As Desdinova said, you are supposed to date women that are better looking than you.. duh!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You'r supposed to date girls that are better looking then you...

:yes: I've always thought so...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Date who you want not by what they look like, it is your world....

YEAH!!! Date a big 'ol greasy, mud foot, crusty eyed, bald headed gimp if you want to, it's your right!!! :woo:

 

[DJ Rook]

I think that feeling is great.

I hope you keep up your attitude. That leaves more 9s / 10s for me. Someone has to date them. I guess I'll take one (or two or three...) for the team.

 

[rocky_mtn]

By definition all girls are better looking than I am. But I know what you mean about dating girls that would be in your "range".

But go for girls that you find attractive.

Fvck everyone else and what they think.

Be proud of yourself and what you do. Be secure with who you are. It gets easier with age.