I have spent a lot of time away from this forum and doing things in the real world. Here are some tips I have boiled down on dating girls. It is a lot simpler than you guys think.
PART 1
THINGS GIRLS LIKE
-Confident and relaxed are the two biggest things
-Indifferent guys who don't care and don't like them too much ("challenge")
-Being told what to do and controlled, "taken"
-Guys who don't tolerate nonsense
-Guys who respond as opposed to react
-Determination
-Testosterone- like lion going in for kill
-Sense of humor is big
-Anger is sometimes entertaining to them
OK, that's basically all you need to know that's related to girls. If you have your act together otherwise, just take those ground rules, go out and just do trial-and-error until it works.
PART 2
But 99% of the problems you guys are having are NOT related to dating specifically. They are related to YOU.
If you actually want to get serious about being better with girls, you have to address yourself.
Do you have any issues:
-Physically? (are you overweight, do you exercise, do you eat nothing but junk?)
-Mentally/psychologically (did you have both parents at home growing up? Were they good parents? Did you have friends in elementary school? High school? What is your attitude like- are you a quitter or are you persistent? What is your self-respect like? What are your values like? Are you emotionally less than stable in any way? etc.)
-Spiritually? (Do you believe in God? Were you introduced to religion growing up?)
-Socially (Do you have friends? Do you have good basic social skills? Is there anything you could work on to make more friends?)
-Career (Are you working a job that you hate, or in a degree program that you hate? Are you miserable in what you're doing? Being good at his job is very important to a man's sense of value).
This will be controversial, but I think you will find that when you address THESE issues, as opposed to dating-specific issues, the girls will come automatically.
PART 1
THINGS GIRLS LIKE
-Confident and relaxed are the two biggest things
-Indifferent guys who don't care and don't like them too much ("challenge")
-Being told what to do and controlled, "taken"
-Guys who don't tolerate nonsense
-Guys who respond as opposed to react
-Determination
-Testosterone- like lion going in for kill
-Sense of humor is big
-Anger is sometimes entertaining to them
OK, that's basically all you need to know that's related to girls. If you have your act together otherwise, just take those ground rules, go out and just do trial-and-error until it works.
PART 2
But 99% of the problems you guys are having are NOT related to dating specifically. They are related to YOU.
If you actually want to get serious about being better with girls, you have to address yourself.
Do you have any issues:
-Physically? (are you overweight, do you exercise, do you eat nothing but junk?)
-Mentally/psychologically (did you have both parents at home growing up? Were they good parents? Did you have friends in elementary school? High school? What is your attitude like- are you a quitter or are you persistent? What is your self-respect like? What are your values like? Are you emotionally less than stable in any way? etc.)
-Spiritually? (Do you believe in God? Were you introduced to religion growing up?)
-Socially (Do you have friends? Do you have good basic social skills? Is there anything you could work on to make more friends?)
-Career (Are you working a job that you hate, or in a degree program that you hate? Are you miserable in what you're doing? Being good at his job is very important to a man's sense of value).
This will be controversial, but I think you will find that when you address THESE issues, as opposed to dating-specific issues, the girls will come automatically.
