"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok so I work at a restaraunt as a cook and of course there are ALOT of hott girls that work as servers. I am a firm beliver in NOT dating girls that you work with for obvious reasons. However, I see these girls every day and I KNOW I could hook up with some if I just played the game a little. I realize this but it makes me so pissed at the end of the night that I didn't take action and it affects my mood at work to where I'm depressed while i'm there and want to find a new job. I supose I could just try and befriend them and hook up with their friends. but I really dont want to take the chance that something might happen with them. A friend (who also works at a restaraunt) told me that its ok to sleep with girls at work so long as you don't make it serious. Any Comments? Also I am 23 and I find that alot of youner girls (like 18 and 19) are attracted to me. Am I too old for them? Kinda feel like I would be taking advantage of them. Any thoghts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you see how you already feel with just the thoughts of being with these co-workers?

Well, imagine how you'd feel if you were messing around with one or two and they started screwing you over. Work would suck so bad. I know from experience.

Just don't! Just find hotties elsewhere. It would be the best thing for you.
 
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But should I even try and befriend them? I'm not trying to sound conceded, but I consider myself to be attractive. I see all the looks they give me And I fear that even talking to them and trying to become only friends would lead to other things. Maybe I should just write the place off completly? I start college again in a month. Heh, I just have to make it till then.
 
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I have fvcked plenty of girls that I worked with. There is nothing wrong with it. It is natural for people to meet in the workplace. You have to be smart about it and you must try not to get emotionally involved with the girl. If you use common sense you will be ok dating someone you work with. Especially seeing that you work in a non professional atmosphere,, If your a CEO than that might be a different story, you would have to be more careful.

And your 23, At your age its healty to fvck 18 year old girls. I am 31 and fvck girls that are younger than you.
 
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Hah thats good to hear about the 18 yr olds. However, one night I was gaming this 18yr old and It was all going good, we made out and what not. So I'm about to leave with her and the age thing came up. Actually it was more me who brought it up and gave the vibe that I had a problem with it but she ended up saying that I was too old for her. Any good comebacks to dis-arm this test? I'm sure It will come up again in the future.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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desire247 said:
Hah thats good to hear about the 18 yr olds. However, one night I was gaming this 18yr old and It was all going good, we made out and what not. So I'm about to leave with her and the age thing came up. Actually it was more me who brought it up and gave the vibe that I had a problem with it but she ended up saying that I was too old for her. Any good comebacks to dis-arm this test? I'm sure It will come up again in the future.
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Never mention the age and don't make an issue about it. When you ask a girl who is interested in you her age and she says 18 say Awwwwwwwww your still a baby. This shows your confident to bust her chops, woman like guys who are not afraid to tease them.
 
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lookyoung said:
I have fvcked plenty of girls that I worked with. There is nothing wrong with it. It is natural for people to meet in the workplace. You have to be smart about it and you must try not to get emotionally involved with the girl. If you use common sense you will be ok dating someone you work with. Especially seeing that you work in a non professional atmosphere,, If your a CEO than that might be a different story, you would have to be more careful.

And your 23, At your age its healty to fvck 18 year old girls. I am 31 and fvck girls that are younger than you.
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Thats just wrong man... if you are sleeping with any girls younger than 18 years old you could be going to jail ....18and over is ok but anything under you are gonna get messed up.
 
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Thats just wrong man... if you are sleeping with any girls younger than 18 years old you could be going to jail ....18and over is ok but anything under you are gonna get messed up.
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Please read the post again. I never said its ok to sleep with underage woman. A girl that is 18 and over is fair game.
 
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Yeah. However, A friend told me that in Louisiana 17 is the age of concent. But thats like what, a jounior in high school? I hate parents..
 
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A friend (who also works at a restaraunt) told me that its ok to sleep with girls at work so long as you don't make it serious.
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You can keep it from getting serious, but you can't control how she will take that, or prevent her from trying to make it serious.

The way I see it - there is an expiration date on these types of things, and when the date is up the last thing you want is the stench of ' the outdated goods' relationship hanging around you where you can't get rid of them, particularly at work. What about when you want to move on to the next one? 'Outdated goods' relationship smell can be a ferocious c0ck block when you are jumping into a pool of girls who all work together.

If you want to go with expiration date goods, do it where you can easily walk away after the fact and not be bothered with it later on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Or, if you actually like the woman and it goes horribly wrong. Then you want to move on but you see her every day, and she doesn't give a damn and laughs in your face every waking moment of every day.

Aside from a sexual harassment charge, that's probably the worse scenario.
 
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Corporate/professional environment.... No.

Small business, mcdonalds, food service industry...sure.
 
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