"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pyros

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Hi.

Would you date a girl that you know cheated on her previous boyfriend for several months?
The thing that she did it to him directly means that she is likely to do it to you at some point?
or could it be that she did to him because she was not fully in love, but she wont do it to you because she really loves you?


Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fact is that she did it and may do it to you. Just don't get emotionally involved use her for fun but no LTR, period.
 

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She's high risk and high stress. It should be in the back of your head at all times. As soon as you'll relax she may be plotting how to jump on another beefstick. Definitely a FWB situation would be your best bet. Otherwise it's a 50/50 of her cheating or not.
 

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If by date you mean smash and dash then sure, why not. Only a man with no other options (a loser) would think of this female as anything more than an orifice to penetrate.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Only a man with no other options (a loser) would think of this female as anything more than an orifice to penetrate.
Where the fvck does this attitude come from? Dude she is a piece of sh1t, forget about her. Go abroad and find some quality WOMEN... they are not just orifices to penetrate, go find a woman who will cook and clean up your house after you bag her. Go find a virgin or a woman who has only had like 2 boyfriends who both dumped her. Go find an asian girl :)
 

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pyros said:
Would you date a girl that you know cheated on her previous boyfriend for several months?
How a relationship begins is how a relationship ends. You’d have to pre-emptively cheat on her before she inevitably cheated on you, which kinda ruins the point of a relationship. Fling her. Hit it & quit it.
 

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Hi,

I know this because she told me; it was pretty difficult to make her talk about it though.

Anyway, I know two girls that cheated on her previous bf and now they both have a new boyfriend and of course they have not told their current boyfriend that they cheated, so these guys think their gf is a nice girl, but they do not know the truth about them.

So my next question is, how many guys are in a relationship with a girl that cheated on previous boyfriends but they would never admit it to their current boyfriend...? Because one of these two guys I know for sure that he asked his gf if she ever cheated and she had no problem lying to him, so he thinks she's a quality girl.
Do you get my point?
 

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No, I don't get your point. It seems you are desperately looking for some kind of justification to be in a relationship with a cheating wh0re.

Our advice is pretty clear, only use her for sex, nothing more. But if you want to go ahead and convince yourself that you're special and this girl wouldn't cheat on you, I wish you good luck. Crash and burn, baby...
 

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The question should be if you want more nerve-wracking stress and drama in your life being in a relationship or have peace of mind being single if this is your only option. If this was not your only option then this topic should not be brought up at all. Why would a guy with options worry about this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LiveFreeX said:
Where the fvck does this attitude come from? Dude she is a piece of sh1t, forget about her. Go abroad and find some quality WOMEN... they are not just orifices to penetrate, go find a woman who will cook and clean up your house after you bag her. Go find a virgin or a woman who has only had like 2 boyfriends who both dumped her. Go find an asian girl :)

LiveFreeX the happierabroad bot that's real epic practical advice. lmao. If you date one chick who cheated on her ex and may cheat on you pack your bags and go to an Asian country. :rolleyes:
 
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