"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pyros

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I've been on a few dates with this chick. She's a 6.5-7 at best but ok, we have a good time together.

The thing is that I looked her up on fb and...wtf?? in her profile pic she's fat! and if you look at her public pics she has a few in which she's like 10 kg fatter.

She told me that she had lost weight but...oh my God. I got traumatized because she has one pic from last year in which she's fat and dresses like sh-it!! but nowadays she looks fine and dresses sexy!

I cannot get rid of what I saw! jeeezzzz....!! whenever I see her I see her fattie self! lol.

You know, if she had not lost all that weight I would give her a 4!!

It's funy because she's told me that she really likes to eat elite/gourmet food, LMAO...now I know why.

She's now like 130 pounds, but last year she was more like 165 and dressed terrible!

I understand now why she hasnt added me on FB...so I dont see her fattie pics...

Any similar experiences??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Had a woman that worked for me. She was a size 0. Guys from all over the 25-story building made excuses to somehow end up on my floor and wander by.

Turns out she was way heavier at one time (a lot over 165). It's not quite 20 years later and I saw her at a conference. She's still mouth watering.
 

Who Dares Win

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I only see positive points from that.

She wasnt treated as a princess her whole life so she learned valuable lessons, she knows the meaning of putting some work in order to improve something.

She has been insecure all that time which means that even 10 yrs later she will still be down to earth enough to be pleasable to deal with, at this moment the problem are not insecure women but irrationaly confident ones which are a pain in the ass to deal with.
 

pyros

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for now she's been pretty nice and polite.

For example, she's offered to pay half everytime.

Our next date is to go to the cinema. I choose a movie I think she likes, she said:
"it doesnt have to be that one, we can watch whatever movie you want"


We'll see.

I still have nightmares about her fattie pictures...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do you guys say "she's ok she's a 6.5 7 at best" a 6.5 or a 7 means she is a solid looking chick. Most Chicks are at the lower spectrum of this scale, so why act so dissappointed? There is not such thing as a 10 or a 9 Just looks wise
 
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