"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"dating facts"

mzilla2

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LOL at some of this advice, I was checking out their site out of morbid curiosity, as they've been carpet bombing the radio advertisements here lately, targeting the "professional" crowd:

http://itsjustlunch.com/datingfacts.aspx

"Dating Facts" on their site...

One Hour:
The time it takes for a women to determine whether or not she wants to see a man again.

1 in 8:
The chance you have that a first date will call you for a second date after 24 hours have passed.

76% of Men:
Prefer brunettes over blondes.

AND THATS A FACT! :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I took their quick survey and this is what their numbers show, let the assumptions commence!!! :rockon:


Have you ever used an internet dating site?
Yes, but I would not do it again 40 %
No, and I never would 9 %
Yes, and it was great 20 %
No, but I would be open to it 31 %

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If so, have you ever gone on a date with someone you met through the dating site?
No, and I don't plan to 3 %
Yes, quite a few 31 %
Yes, once or twice 23 %
No, not yet 43 %

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What was the longest you've dated someone you met through an internet dating site?
I never have 49 %
1 or 2 dates 17 %
A few weeks 14 %
A few months 9 %
More than 6 months 11 %

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Have you ever gone on a date with someone you met through a social networking site like Myspace or Facebook?
Yes, quite a few 0 %
No, not yet 49 %
Yes, once or twice 11 %
No, and I don't plan to 40 %

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How many hours would you say you spend online when you get home from work?
None - the last thing I want to do when I get home is get on a computer 14 %
About an hour 54 %
A couple of hours 23 %
I am constantly online 9 %

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What sites do you usually visit in your free time?
Sports 15 %
Media 21 %
Shopping 12 %
News 38 %
Financial 15 %

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Where is the best place to find a date?
At the gym 9 %
A bookstore 32 %
Online 18 %
In a bar 41 %

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What sites do you usually visit in your free time?
Sports 15 %
Media 21 %
Shopping 12 %
News 38 %
Financial 15 %
Where's the pRon option? :D 99.8%
 
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