Dating circle?

[needstochange]

There are these 3 or 4 girls who I've been wanting to go out with for a few weeks now. But the only problem is, they're all friends. Pretty close friends in fact. So before I start dating any of them, should I be cautious? Because girls LOVE to gossip and talk about guys (especially in High School; ages 15-16 to be exact) and if they know that I'm dating all 3 of them, will that cause some negative consequences toward me? Would anyone recommend me doing this? If so, is there anything I need to know? If not recommended, how come?

Also, over here "dating" is not really a big thing (well at least at my age). It's like your together or your not and if your not together, the girl is a slut and the guy is a "player" for soing so.

Thanks in advance

 

[Vogel]

If they're as close friends as you say they are, just date one of them, if you date more of them they'll eventually talk about it, and then you're in trouble

 

[needstochange]

Lol thanks. But I want to date them all and I kind of don't mind being in trouble in the short-term sense. although it may affect me in the long run >.<

Any more answers would be GREATLY appreciated.

 

[kazz]

Well I doubt you'll be able to date them all at once, but I believe you can date each one one at a time. However, I think it would be best dating one and making good friends with the others, effectively turning them into wings. read this thread, I think it can help you. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155502&highlight=social+circle+game

 

[Analyzeit]

No, they will tell each other your right they LOVE to gossip about guys, they won't tell you this but yes they do.

You can't date all of them if they good friends. They just talk to much! best you can honestly do is just 1 of them and if you really want to risk it the two that are the farest apart friendship wise and won't talk about it to each other.

But honestly, and you do know it maybe just don't realize the extent that they do. They talk about them and at this age heaps and they ask their friends ridiculous questions like do you love him?? ect ect... and they going to soon get angry when they spill their guts about who they are going out with and realize it all the same guy, your just going to get rejected.

Fact is at this age and probably any age you can't go out with girls that are friends because they talk to each other it simple. The only way you can is if the girl knows that your cheating on her friend and doesn't care.

Best you can do is when you go out with one and that ends then you may be able to go on to another but that would be mostly luck, so i wouldn't put your bets on it.

Realistically if you want it to end well just one at a time, ok

Simple fact is they gossip

 

[Natural Vibe]

I used to do this in my AFC days. I was flirting/dating with two girls in the same CLOSE social clique at the same time.

It turned to ****. Think Gossip + Player = Lots Of Laughs. On their side.

Have a group date if you want, just bring them all somewhere. Then hone on your target, and boom. If the others are interested they'll get jealous and try to fight for your attention. Then you can turn plates. But only for that particular time. I've had one such occasion, we went to buy a pizza, and the chick behind the counter, in a very impressed daydreaming voice, said: "Five girls at the same time......" and she just stared blankly at me. Priceless.