"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dating Chinese Girls

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One of my friends has some solid experience with Chinese women. He is 35 years old and started attracting women in the states about 3-4 years before making his first trip to China. He uses the same strategy over and over again in the states because it works:

1. Make the women comfortable and trust you.
(This is easy if you're a nice guy, but you'll have to take it to the next
level if you want to get anywhere.)
2. Build their feelings of respect and admiration for you with stories.
(if a women can not respect or admire you, she wouldn't sleep with you)
3. Get them used to being in close proximity to you, and get
them used to being touchy feely with you.
4. Build up feelings of excitement and arousal, and link them all to YOU.

During the time with them, he usually throws in a few hints without sounding as if it means much to him so that they can come to the same conclusion themselves that: ( I'm desireable to women. I'm in good physical shape. I'm exciting sexually, etc... ). Women get turned off very fast when they think you're bragging, so he does it in a way where it does not look like that at all, and it is only by subtle implication because they filled in the blanks themselves to come to that conclusion based on how he acts and carry himself when he is with them.

His first trip to China was a big eye opener. He has been so fined tuned with getting around the defences of women in the states, that he found it was just way too easy in ShenZhen, China to score with beautiful women. He didn't have to try very hard, because women in China didn't seem to have the problems that women in the states had: suspicion that every guy is just trying to get into their pants, and that they had to be difficult to avoid looking easy. He of course totally loved this difference, because it was very little work, with lots of play.

The mention of his penis was really his way of saying that I am not afraid to tell you my penis size in order to dispell the myth that asian's have tiny penis. It's not a big penis, but he is happy with penis either way, and he doesn't feel a need to change it.

The truth is, you don't need a huge penis to be very good in bed. You just need to know how to use it the right way.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Is this "friend" of yours making you advertise his blog about dating, prostitution and sex in China?
 

Huffman

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Well he might rather be living off the fact that white western guys are extremely popular with the chinese, or even in most of asia.
Sure, you still gotta do the work, but these girls would consider pretty much any decent-looking white guy a "cood catch".

Additionally, Chinese society is very male-dominated, so you wouldn't get most of those *****y resistance games.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

speakeasy

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There are beautiful women in Asia, but China is at the bottom of the list. I remember having to change planes in Taipei once and looking at the women walking around the airport thinking damn, these are some of the ugliest women I've ever seen. Yeah, I know Taiwan is not in mainland China but they are still Han Chinese. On the other hand, Japanese girls are bangin'. Vietnamese is pretty good too.
 
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