"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dating behavior vs. true inner nature

DonJuanabe

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How long do you generally think the veneer comes off and the "best foot forward" personality reverts to the real personality? You know, when two people first begin dating they want to make a good impression, show some game, etc. but that is not one's true personality. When does the ***** or screwball or control freak or whatever finally show up such that you think is this the same chick I've gone out with 5 times? I have to think that, in many cases, being turned down ends up being a favor to you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Young Stallion

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Always maintained that the only reason a girl says be yourself....is so she has an easier time judging which guys are wussies and which guys are the real thing.
 

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As soon as you show your dark side, she shows hers. Then the honeymoon is over.
 
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