Dating at work.... sorta

[drawde]

I'm a teller at a local credit union (bank), and I've had a couple of ladies pass their number to me thru my window, none of them were particularly exciting, but I started to notice that this one member (customer) that doesn't visit the branch that often, started picking me out of the crowd in public places, making sure I noticed her (a definite 8, and that's hard to come by in Northern Mich.). She hasn't gone about slipping her number to me thru my teller window like others, but I think her actions speak for themselves. I was wondering, how "ethical" such a relationshsip would be? I've tried dating w/in the workplace (ouch) and am worried it might end the same way, since this is where she does all of her banking. Does the fact that she's not in frequently help?

P.S. I know her parents pretty well from banking with them at the Credit Union, but never really was formally introduced to her, nor have I really seen her other than a breif glance when I was at her parents business, and I highly doubt her parents talked much about me, $#@+, I can't even remember her before she said "hi" to me at a restaurant one day. Will my friendship with the parents hinder or help? This is all a tangled mess... please help me out

 

[Walden]

Ethical schmethical. So long as you don't hit on her at work , where's the problem?

 

[drawde]

Yea good call. Who cares?... So she shows up again, and we get to talkin in the bank... she's got this $50 some guy that likes her gave her, but she says she doesn't like him that much and tried to give it back. He says no and gives it to her and runs. So she's askin me what to do with it, so I tell her to take me out for lunch... next thing I know, I've got her #. Now.. where to go for food

 

[TesuqueRed]

Whaddya mean slim pickings in the N. Mich? UP? I was there 25 years ago skiing and couldn't believe the stunning amount of blondes--unreal, these--every which way I turned.

I'm in CA now--plenty of blondes (most are bottle blondes, though...not the 110% all natural blondes like we had growinig up in Minnesota...sigh...--but MI is just the same, just a few hours east.)

 

[drawde]

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Whaddya mean slim pickings in the N. Mich? UP? I was there 25 years ago skiing and couldn't believe the stunning amount of blondes--unreal, these--every which way I turned.

I'm in CA now--plenty of blondes (most are bottle blondes, though...not the 110% all natural blondes like we had growinig up in Minnesota...sigh...--but MI is just the same, just a few hours east.)

Oh hell yea, the TOURISTS are hot, but the locals aren't much to look at. Most of the decide to eat instead of go out and exercise in the frozen months of the winter. Constant eating = fat = nasty. As far as the tourists, those just turn into long distance relationships, and no good comes of them...

 

[TesuqueRed]

Originally posted by drawde
Oh hell yea, the TOURISTS are hot, but the locals aren't much to look at. Most of the decide to eat instead of go out and exercise in the frozen months of the winter. Constant eating = fat = nasty. As far as the tourists, those just turn into long distance relationships, and no good comes of them...

Gotcha---them's corn-fed women up there--I know the type. They got thighs that can break you---don't use the wrong name at the wrong moment or you'll be crippled for life!

 

[drawde]

lol! There are a few descent ones that actually care about their body and how they look, but there's so few of them that there's lots of competition, that was the point I was tryin to get across w/ that whole thing.