"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dating and staying that way.

Colin O'Brien

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I guess the one thing thats' preventing me from asking girls out is that I honestly don't want to be in a relationship right now. What I need is some words of wisdom on how to date a girl but make sure it doesn't evolve into a relationship.. keep it casual, you know?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MCristo

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Don't date in groups. That's lame and you won't get any ass.

You don't necessarily have to be a girls official boyfriend in order to be dating them casually. Just tell the girl you aren't interested in commitment yet and if she has a problem with that then she isn't what you are looking for anyway.
 
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