It is against my nature too so I can answer this question better than most here. All women attached or unattached, married or unmarried, good or bad, religious or atheist, sexually repressed or horny have fantasies about meeting a desirable man, sleeping with him for one night and never seeing him again. What you need to do is access that fantasy and turn it into a reality for her.
It is all about being desirable and creating an illusion of lust that makes her forget about all her commitments, problems and focus solely on you. For those next few hours you need to be the only thing in her life, the most important thing in her life.
It is easier said than done though, as a woman in todays world she has a lot of barriers, such as:
- The false idealistic notion of love that most humans harbor. This can cloud her judgment she will want to have some kind of strong connection before she sleeps with you but this can easily be substituted lust.
- What the rest of the world will think of her if you take her home. Again a lot of lust takes care of this.
The thing you need to know his how do you build enough lust to make a woman let go of her inhibitions, go home with you and have the best sex of her life.
It comes down to the details, you need to look good, feel good and smell good. These are the easy parts, visit the gym get a good toned body, that takes care of part of look and feel. The second part is to dress well, I recommend expensive designer cloths for a few reasons and before I get every poor guy on this forum writing a treatise about how we do not need expensive cloths I want to say I agree. You do not need expensive cloths but they sure do help:
- They are a lot more comfortable, being more comfortable makes you more confident.
- They fit better on your body which makes you look better.
- Generally speaking they are more breathable so you do not sweat which again makes you more confident. You can not tell me that being hot and sweaty you are not less confident than when you are clean and fresh.
- If a woman knows her fashion she will appreciate that you know yours.
I will say again good cloths are not essential but they do make you look better and help overall. You do not want anything flashy just high quality. Also add a nice cologne to make you smell good.
So lets review so far....
You want to look, feel and smell great. To do so you should visit the gym and get in shape if you aren't already, wear nice cloths and get a good cologne.
These things are important, when a woman is pressed up against you kissing you she can still back out. I am sure many a man has heard those spirit crushing words "not tonight". But when she is pressed up against your hard body, she feels the soft fabric of your expensive shirt caressing her skin ever so lightly and she can smell a light scent of cologne mixed with the pheromones your body gives off when aroused she will not be able to resist.
These are the minor details and they help on the approach because they make you more physically desirable and in the getting her home as I explained above. However the big and most important part in the middle has absolutely nothing to do with cloths, cologne or appearance.
You need to be dominant, look into her eyes, touch her (I believe they call it kino here) and lead the conversation. You want your conversation to be sexually charged even when you are not talking about sex, you want your gaze into her eyes to be sexually charged. She needs to forget the world around her and focus only on you.
I talk about everything and anything, like
Water...
How every single drop of water on Earth has been around for billions of years. It has been inside millions of people, circled the Earth inside clouds countless times. How each drop of water in an ancient relic that existed before any of us did and will outlive us all. This can be a very sexually charged subject if you sue your imagination..
Or I talk about planets.
Something mysterious, interesting it is all in how you describe it. Remember it has to be sexually charged.
You want her just for one night so forget most of the seduction stuff that is geared towards long term relationships. You want to adhere to the basic principles though, do not appear needy, do not put her on a pedestal. You need to be incredibly desirable and build up lust. Once you get that you can take any woman home, even married ones that would have never before considered cheating on their husbands.
