"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dating and **** Buddies

Revivia

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If I want to date several girls and/or have several **** buddies, do I tell each and every one of them that I plan on not being exclusive with her, and want to date other girls and well as wanting to have other **** buddies? I would like to hear people's opinions that are experienced in this area and have dealt with this situation before. Thanks for your help!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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morepoonplease

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it all depends on what the girl is looking for... if shes looking for a fb it will be obvious... on the flipside if u have a chick who wants a relationship you should be able to spot that too... so telling the relationship seeking chick that u want a no strings attached deal is going to mean you won't b fvcking her much longer.
 

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Do you think a girl that wants to be in a relationship would be receptive to the fact that I want to date other girls on the side? I guess the only way to know for sure is to just state my intentions but I'd like to have your guys' opinions. Thanks
 

morepoonplease

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holy fvck dude, i give you gold and you ask the same fvcking question.... figure it out its common sense... u can tell if a chick is clingy and obviously wouldn't want you dipping in other chicks... and u know when you have a chick who wants to be dipped in by other dudes and not just you... use the head on your shoulders a little bit when dealing with chicks... just a little though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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