Dating advice needed for a Serbian girl!

[redshift]

So i met this smoking hot Serbian girl at a party last night. (I somehow seem to attract..or get good responses from european women here in Detroit ..maybe coz i am half asian-australian?)

Anyways she is atleast H8.5/9. We hit off just awesome and i "told" her to punch in her #, which she did. Now the question is she is "relatively" new here ( about 7 months maybe), plus she HASNOT gone out on a date before in the U.S! (She told me that in the convo).

I didnt tell her anything that time, but i want to hang out with her sometime this weekend.

Any tips on how to handle this? Just use the plain American way, or any different?

Any inputs by today night (8 EST) will e appreciated.coz i want to call her then.

Advance thanks!

 

[redshift]

And oops forgot..her english is lets say ..a lil "different"...

 

[G-Man UK]

I guess that's to be expected seen as she's 'Serbian'

 

[MindOverMatter]

Hey bro:

1.) Don't be a scrub. I hate talking bad about my own people, but serbian girls are materialistic as hell. Back home in Europe, guys love to throw down cash for everything, and they're used to it. When they find a guy who doesn't, they move on and keep looking.

2.) Have style.

3.) Have manners. Opening a door for her, helping her with her coat (well it's summer now, but in the winter this advice would apply) will score you pts.

4.) Don't be a wuss. They are not used to AFC behaviour. In Serbia, every guy who hits the age of 18 has to serve in the military for a couple of years, and add in the fact that the country goes to some kind of war every few years, you have a society of very aggressive, loud guys that don't take sh!t. Most likely the guys she has dated have been very alpha, and as a result this is what pushes her buttons. To them, Canadian/American guys can be very tame in comparison. I'm not saying you should be a d!ck to her, be a good guy, but be the one in charge, and if she gives you sh!t, don't take it.


5.) Don't get too attached. Most Serbian girls who are FOB will date around with people from their new culture, but these relationships don't last long because their parents expect them to only date Serbs. So everytime when things get serious, they tend to run unless the guy is a Serb. It is racist, but you try arguing with her dad about that.


Best of luck bro!

 

[redshift]

MindOverMatter: Thanks a lot! Good 101!

I am not looking for an LTR anyways, so Dads and Moms should not be a prob. But if i find that she is a gold digger..i ask her to go to hell!

Will let you ppl know how things go..should be a nice experience..