"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dating a virgin with divorced parents?

kissmyass123

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been seeing this girl for couple weeks. Like some girls, she has emotional issues, self-esteem, and commitment. Lately, its getting physical and she loves to make out, which I don't mind. She said that she lacked physical attention in her life. I don't know if my relationship will just be physical. Anyone with experiences? Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skyline

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kissmyass123 said:
She said that she lacked physical attention in her life.
That means Fvck me.

..Divorce and everything you just said are all red flags and potential deal breakers though.
 

Falcon

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Divorce is pretty common these days. If you are going to use that as a qualifier, it will greatly limit the size of your pool to choose from.
 
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