We see ‘em every time we venture out in public, at the malls, movie theaters, festivals, etc. High maintenance chics are ones that require extra care. Typical behavior includes; voicing their opinion often, complaining about everything, shushing people in movie theaters, extremely low tolerance, impatient, picky, bored easily. It’s all about them, their needs come first, they tend to be very superficial/vain. Hotties, super models, princess women can spend all day looking for the perfect shoe and come home empty handed. They would never be caught dead shopping at a dollar store, they are strictly brand name specific. These types despise getting dirty, sweaty and look down upon anyone who does. Getting ready to venture out can take several hours, spontaneity is not in their vocabulary. Why would anyone want to date one of these types. The obvious answer is these women are ascetically easy on the eyes. The downsides: they are emotionally draining, deplete your wallet, irritating beyond belief, obsessed about their looks and very demanding. Typical schedules include: the tanning salon, manicures/pedicures, shopping spree’s, working out, venturing out to new trendy clubs, frequent visits to hair stylists, constantly conversing on the cell phone. Men are constantly starring at them, they get hit on all the time, they often get “preferred service” just based upon their looks. These women expect to be treated special, just try treating them like everyone else and watch the drama hit the fan. They are always contemplating plastic surgery to enhance their looks. The sad truth is: dating one of these types will never be a 50/50 partnership. The emotional investment, combined with the amount of money you will blow, is just a means to an end. Yet guys drool and equate this type of woman as the ultimate prize, in reality they turn out to be the ultimate pain. Landing one of these women will require thinking outside the box. Bait usually entails 2 essential criteria’s 1) being superficially hot yourself (tanned, tall, 6 pack abs, cool car, money ,etc) 2) Power or fame: if you are the center of attraction, in the public eye the chics will be flowing. Jobs like: bartender, DJ, owner of a club, member of a band, on American Idol, Label model, Ceo of whatever, comedian, actor, workout guru. Any type of career where she might be associated with or share the spotlight gives her bragging rights. Warning: these women often use their physical attributes to get whatever they desire. They can be very manipulative, and if you are not immune to this type of behavior, you might up being used as a credit card to finance their fun for the moment. Other manipulative behavior patterns include but not limited to are: stealing men away from their girlfriends, flirting with married men, getting free drinks all night, accumulating phone numbers. The correct way to deal with these types is to treat ‘em like equals. Inform them from the beginning you will not put up with their antics and the moment she over-reacts dismiss her. Think of her like your little bratty sister, cute but irritating at times. If you tolerate her outrageous behavior she knows she has you and nice guys WILL BE EATEN ALIVE.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dating A Super Model
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
PigAdlemPimp
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Not all "Nice Guys" are Wimps, this is just something that the PUA community has made up, it isn't always the case though.
I never mentioned whimps.......theres a difference between nice guy and doing nice things. Being nice all the time DOES NOT EVOKE Attraction. Doing nice things is best kept for girlfriend type relationships. Super hotties respond to bad boy antics. If being a nice guy was all it took everyone would be dating a super model. Trust me hot chics crave bad boys and yes bad boys do nice things but there not nice guys. Know the difference......sometimes nice DOES NOT ALWAYS WORK and often NICE is associated with boring. No one says that rock star is a nice guy, they say he is a rock star and oh sooooo hot. If you are one of those guys that does not have a cool job, or money.....than you need to avoid the nice guy stereotype as much as possible.
QUESTION: DO YOU WANT A NICE GIRL or a naughty girl thats nice.......well the same applies to hot chics.....they want a hot guy who sometimes acts nice.
QUESTION: DO YOU WANT A NICE GIRL or a naughty girl thats nice.......well the same applies to hot chics.....they want a hot guy who sometimes acts nice.
PigAdlemPimp
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In many ways you are right, the reality is that "Nice Guys" who are boring are not really very nice at all, they are wimps who expect hot babes to hate them and so they do nice things to try to win her over, they don't do many nice things for other people in general though, only the hot babes they desire, remember this.
Bad Boys are not really bad in that sence, they are usually more giving of themselves than are the Nice Guys, they have a natural Charisma, so they don't have to pretend to be nice to allure the woman.
It isn't that they are Bad or that they are Nice that is attracting the hot babes to them it is their Charisma that is doing it.
I once knew a dude named Dale, he was a wimpy dawky quietly spoken AFC type of a dude, he was never very nice to me or anyone else that I knew at the time, though everytime this HB8 named Serena, was arround he all of a sudden pretended to be a Nice Guy, he was a fool, as he complimented her on things that were not real, did everything he could to please her, and he treated her as if she was the Prize, the fool never got what he wanted in the end, it was just another notch in the belt of his loserism with the babes.
I guess for me the hardest thing to understand about woman is that a dude can be the exact replica of Dale, if he is famous and fvck as many hot babes as he desires, though when it comes to dudes who are living the average life it is always the more manly cooler types of dudes that fvck the hot babes.
For this reason I rate Fame as the number one quality desired by the hottest babes, then Charisma and Wealth equal second, Game third and Looks which are still a benefit to have just behind that, I was flamed for saying this, but to me it does seem right.
Bad Boys are not really bad in that sence, they are usually more giving of themselves than are the Nice Guys, they have a natural Charisma, so they don't have to pretend to be nice to allure the woman.
It isn't that they are Bad or that they are Nice that is attracting the hot babes to them it is their Charisma that is doing it.
I once knew a dude named Dale, he was a wimpy dawky quietly spoken AFC type of a dude, he was never very nice to me or anyone else that I knew at the time, though everytime this HB8 named Serena, was arround he all of a sudden pretended to be a Nice Guy, he was a fool, as he complimented her on things that were not real, did everything he could to please her, and he treated her as if she was the Prize, the fool never got what he wanted in the end, it was just another notch in the belt of his loserism with the babes.
I guess for me the hardest thing to understand about woman is that a dude can be the exact replica of Dale, if he is famous and fvck as many hot babes as he desires, though when it comes to dudes who are living the average life it is always the more manly cooler types of dudes that fvck the hot babes.
For this reason I rate Fame as the number one quality desired by the hottest babes, then Charisma and Wealth equal second, Game third and Looks which are still a benefit to have just behind that, I was flamed for saying this, but to me it does seem right.
I've come to the realization, the girls you speak of are not hotter... It's an illusion. They do up their hair, wear the EXPENSIVE clothes, do their nails, etc., and go up to a girl withouth these things, and look 10 times better. Take off the expensive jewelry, hair, clothes, nails, and all, they are no better than other girls.
It's like saying Ginger is hotter than Mary Anne when in reality she is just infatuated with her looks. If you have a Mary Anne, you don't have to deal with the BS and are much better off.
These girls don't look much better, for the most part, than your typical down to earth girl that's also in shape.
It's like saying Ginger is hotter than Mary Anne when in reality she is just infatuated with her looks. If you have a Mary Anne, you don't have to deal with the BS and are much better off.
These girls don't look much better, for the most part, than your typical down to earth girl that's also in shape.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
I've known a number of people who are/were famous to some degree (enough to have many fawning fans/groupies, etc.), and many are pretty down-to-earth, and puzzled at how people worship them, if not downright contemptuous of it.
That said, you're right on the money about treating them like equals, COD. Being a "bad boy" is not necessary in all cases -- depends on how much of an "image digger" the gal is -- but coming across as someone who's at least at their level is a must.
A bit of playful teasing is gold when dealing with famous women. I hate to "toot my horn," but I've used it to good effect when dealing with them.
That said, you're right on the money about treating them like equals, COD. Being a "bad boy" is not necessary in all cases -- depends on how much of an "image digger" the gal is -- but coming across as someone who's at least at their level is a must.
A bit of playful teasing is gold when dealing with famous women. I hate to "toot my horn," but I've used it to good effect when dealing with them.
COD said:We see ‘em every time we venture out in public, at the malls, movie theaters, festivals, etc. High maintenance chics are ones that require extra care. Typical behavior includes; voicing their opinion often, complaining about everything, shushing people in movie theaters, extremely low tolerance, impatient, picky, bored easily. It’s all about them, their needs come first, they tend to be very superficial/vain. Hotties, super models, princess women can spend all day looking for the perfect shoe and come home empty handed. They would never be caught dead shopping at a dollar store, they are strictly brand name specific. These types despise getting dirty, sweaty and look down upon anyone who does. Getting ready to venture out can take several hours, spontaneity is not in their vocabulary. Why would anyone want to date one of these types. The obvious answer is these women are ascetically easy on the eyes. The downsides: they are emotionally draining, deplete your wallet, irritating beyond belief, obsessed about their looks and very demanding. Typical schedules include: the tanning salon, manicures/pedicures, shopping spree’s, working out, venturing out to new trendy clubs, frequent visits to hair stylists, constantly conversing on the cell phone. Men are constantly starring at them, they get hit on all the time, they often get “preferred service” just based upon their looks. These women expect to be treated special, just try treating them like everyone else and watch the drama hit the fan. They are always contemplating plastic surgery to enhance their looks. The sad truth is: dating one of these types will never be a 50/50 partnership. The emotional investment, combined with the amount of money you will blow, is just a means to an end. Yet guys drool and equate this type of woman as the ultimate prize, in reality they turn out to be the ultimate pain. Landing one of these women will require thinking outside the box. Bait usually entails 2 essential criteria’s 1) being superficially hot yourself (tanned, tall, 6 pack abs, cool car, money ,etc) 2) Power or fame: if you are the center of attraction, in the public eye the chics will be flowing. Jobs like: bartender, DJ, owner of a club, member of a band, on American Idol, Label model, Ceo of whatever, comedian, actor, workout guru. Any type of career where she might be associated with or share the spotlight gives her bragging rights. Warning: these women often use their physical attributes to get whatever they desire. They can be very manipulative, and if you are not immune to this type of behavior, you might up being used as a credit card to finance their fun for the moment. Other manipulative behavior patterns include but not limited to are: stealing men away from their girlfriends, flirting with married men, getting free drinks all night, accumulating phone numbers. The correct way to deal with these types is to treat ‘em like equals. Inform them from the beginning you will not put up with their antics and the moment she over-reacts dismiss her. Think of her like your little bratty sister, cute but irritating at times. If you tolerate her outrageous behavior she knows she has you and nice guys WILL BE EATEN ALIVE.
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Centaurion
Master Don Juan
lol@some dude at Idol hooking up with a SUPER model.