"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dating A Sexually Abused Girl

Capt. America

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I have been dating this amazing girl who is funny, caring, and pretty. This is the best sex that I ever had and nothing we want to do is off limits. She gets along very well with my family and friends as do I with hers. There is only one nagging thing that she disclosed to me recently. She told me she was molested once when she was younger (7 years old) and that the person was never captured.

Do you have any tips, strategy, resources I could utilize to best handle this situation? Thanks for your help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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=VAGO=

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well, what is it that u wanna do with her? ltr, fuvk buds? what? just dont become her therapist or start playing detective.
 

vachir

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keep in mind whenever u have a fight and she wants things her way she will just pull out the sad card. and that sad card is the trump card. prolly not worth the trouble to date imho but good luck
 
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