Dating a myspace attention wh0re

[SomeKindaHate]

I’ve been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now. I was almost trapped into the friend’s zone, up until we kissed on the last date. She is 20, conservative, and has only been here in the US for 4 years, but has tons of guy friends. She clarified that she is one of the ‘guys’ and she has no interest in hooking up at all.

Well here is the thing; she is a total myspace attention wh0re. I swear her whole life revolves around myspace. I have a better chance of contacting her via mypace message rather than a phone call or text. I did not give her my myspace yet, for obvious reasons to stay drama free. I did give her my company's myspace, and I checked her profile and its all dudes and not many girls.

Should I keep her on deck? I really like this girl and it’s starting to get to me.

I sound like an AFC, but I’m currently dating and hooking up with 3 other girls, but this girl is my main focus.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

Yes, you should NEVER date someone who has revealed herself to be a Myspace Attention Whhore.

Instead, YOUR mission, if you choose to accept it, is to try to fukk her "ONLY". Don't even go in with the mindset of a dating OR having a relationship. You will KNOW when a woman is finally ready to be your girlfriend and NOT just an attention vampire:

When she starts ACTING like a big part of her day, her life, and her WORLD revolves around YOU-----and NOT around leeching sexual energy from various and sundry mutherfukkers off the internet OR in "real" life.



March on.

 

[KontrollerX]

Just keep her around as something to fvck.

Do not drop your other plates for this one.

Too many red flags, those guys are not her friends and she's not just one of the guys or any other b.s she tells you.

Have fun but keep your heart for someone who doesn't immediately disturb you with their behaviour.

 

[Interceptor]

I’ve been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now. I was almost trapped into the friend’s zone, up until we kissed on the last date. She is 20, conservative,

She lied to you, She us NOT "conservative," This is Anti Slut reputation Defense. Nothing more. I can't believe you bought into that.

and has only been here in the US for 4 years, but has tons of guy friends.

Big RED FLAG right there.They're not "friends". They are Attentio0n INhectors. They inject her with what SHE needs, and they get nothing except the "priviledge" of being around her. Hoping they can close her one day.


She clarified that she is one of the ‘guys’ and she has no interest in hooking up at all.


What more do you need to hear???!!!!!! Listen, you know she's an AW. She may be playing "hard to get". Either way, she expects you to chase HER. If that's what you want to do, knowinf full well she's an AW with many guys already in line before you, be my guest. Don't say you didn't know, or weren't warned.



Well here is the thing; she is a total myspace attention wh0re. I swear her whole life revolves around myspace. I have a better chance of contacting her via mypace message rather than a phone call or text. I did not give her my myspace yet, for obvious reasons to stay drama free. I did give her my company's myspace, and I checked her profile and its all dudes and not many girls.

Should I keep her on deck?


Maybe. Here's why. Use her as a labratory experiment. Get into her mind. ANd find out how she operates. You won't gwet any sex, or intimacy from her. But you will learn an awful lot of signals and cues to help you indentify Red Flags further down the road.


I really like this girl and it’s starting to get to me.

And that is how you will fail. And you will burn. And you will feel the punishment.
It has very little to do with you "liking" her. And everything to do with HER "liking you " back, and SHOWING it!!!! Every girl has some guy who "likes" her. You're a guy, you like girls, right? Why do you think that just because YOU like a girl, she automatically HAS to like you back?! You need to reevaluate your thinking.



I sound like an AFC, but I’m currently dating and hooking up with 3 other girls,

Define your version of "hooking up, please. Thank you.

but this girl is my main focus.

And then you shall pay. I'll have a toast at your wake.
"Here's lies SKH. He died with his boots on, and his condom unused. Three cheers for him. And may he learn the lesson of his AFC ways for the next one!"

 

[a-rookie]

it's OK to like her , but now go for the fvck . next time you see her.
after that then act like you're busy,busy. dude those guys aren't her pals so don't get ur hopes too high up there for her. Do it and then let's see what happens. If you cling to be serious wit her she'll dump you quick.
Keep it intersting and play her. by the way use a rubba.

 

[Luveno]

If you do not have any opportunity to have sex with her, then she serves no purpose in your life.

 

[Interceptor]

Unless he does as I advise him to, and use this experience as a labratory...

But only if he stays far enough away to NOT BECOME ATTACHED. And not become an "emotional tampon."


A DJ learns from women, and his mistakes.

Never burn your bridges.
You may have use for her now and in the future.

 

[Obsidian]

if she thinks she's "just one of the guys," that is practically the definition of a hor

But it sounds like maybe you were starting to get somewhere with her on your last "date"? We need more information.

 

[SomeKindaHate]

I pretty much agree with all the DJs in here, at this point I am already starting to see the red flags. It’s just unfortunate that I look at her as some perfect LTR. She pretty much has all the qualities – HB9 face, bangin’ body, style, and intelligence. I approached her at the mall with some of the best game I had.

Still, I think you guys are right and I should just have the mentality of just wanting to smash. That will lead me to more aggressive and temporarily take the feelings I have for her. I was currently taking things slow while dating because I had a lot of respect for her. I will now treat her like I treat HB6's.

I will study this chick for now, to see what these AW’s are really about. We’ll see how it plays out in the next weeks. The only way I could imagine her getting pissed is for to see something on my personal myspace page, which I will never show her, unless desperate times call for desperate measures.

Define your version of "hooking up, please. Thank you."

What I mean is that I am smashing 2 of the girls and the other one I am almost there. Then again these girls are HB6’s and under and I really have no attraction to fully date them or start an LTR. They usually just come to my Apt. and we watch DVDs, drink, and smash. I would not want to be seen in public with them, even though I had to a few times. I have perfect game with HB7’s and below, all above I want to end up marrying them.

 

[Obsidian]

s. I have perfect game with HB7’s and below, all above I want to end up marrying them.

lol, I know the feeling

 

[Pimp-sicle]

fvck her, then dump her.

+1

You only "like her" because you don't have any other options and your letting her looks blind your better judgement. If she's so consumed with myspace and AW'ing around, let her do that and just fuvk her a few times a month.




PIMP

 

[zerocelcius]

If you Next her than just do it, if you make her a FB than do it, BUT what ever you do DON't let those other guys on her MySpace get to you. Don't bring it up, don't get jealous, don't do anything about them.

Keep your cool, Keep your options open, and Keep your mind in the game.

2cents.