"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dating a more successful woman

squirrels

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You would not believe.

I'm dating this girl now who has her own business, plus her parents and grandparents are worth millions of dollars. I've seen pictures of the house...she wants me to come visit.

I finally dug it out of her the other guys she's been dating. One supposedly owns like, 3 Corvettes, another one is a successful lawyer...she lives in a neighborhood with guys constantly inviting her to wild parties and other weird sh!t.

I'm a working stiff...granted a 6-figure working stiff but a working stiff nonetheless.

I can't get rid of her. I have literally tried twice to blow her off and push her away, in no uncertain terms, and she is so smitten she will not take "no" for an answer.

She spent Sunday morning begging me to f**k her, then when I finally did, she sat on the couch all Sunday evening while I played Halo and almost refused to leave AGAIN Sunday night.

And I'm wondering...why the hell??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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squirrels said:
You would not believe.

I'm dating this girl now who has her own business, plus her parents and grandparents are worth millions of dollars. I've seen pictures of the house...she wants me to come visit.

I finally dug it out of her the other guys she's been dating. One supposedly owns like, 3 Corvettes, another one is a successful lawyer...she lives in a neighborhood with guys constantly inviting her to wild parties and other weird sh!t.

I'm a working stiff...granted a 6-figure working stiff but a working stiff nonetheless.

I can't get rid of her. I have literally tried twice to blow her off and push her away, in no uncertain terms, and she is so smitten she will not take "no" for an answer.
My Opinon is that your lack of trying to get in her pants is whats turning her on, this is a lot of mens weakness being too thirsty (It happens to me a lot *sigh)

How do you turn that off squirrels?

on another note can I burrow 10'g's?

:)
 

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Solomon said:
My Opinon is that your lack of trying to get in her pants is whats turning her on, this is a lot of mens weakness being too thirsty (It happens to me a lot *sigh)

How do you turn that off squirrels?

on another note can I burrow 10'g's?

:)
Squirels doesn't really make 6 figures, he works with Cordon at Sheetz gas station pumping gas.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I recently turned a rich flame into a FB.
Now she wants more.
As soon as she knew I was dating others, the interest level went though the roof.

Also understand ... these rich women have difficulty finding a man that looks as good as them, earns the same and is the same age.
The men their age who are rich (and available), typically are divorced from their aging wife and looking for the young trophy.

They're not near so difficult to date as you think.
Just don't go AFC or you're done for.

SH
 

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Confession time: When I was living the up-and-coming rockstar life at 22 I met a woman who was 41 at a gig I was playing. She was an A&R executive. Recently divorced, she worked in the industry, ex-husband was a producer of some very successful (some would say seminal) albums of the 80's and she had a good chunk of his profits as divorce spoils. She was attractive and the first 'cougar' (though the term didn't exist then) I'd ever gotten with.

Needless to say she was far more paid than my broke ass back then, but I gave her what she craved - the high level excitement, sexual thrills and unpredictability she lacked for years in her marriage. The sex was novel at first, but the real reason I kept hitting it was because she was managing the band, doing promotions, partying with us, and paid for absolutely everything. The first time I ever had sushi was at her insistence to the tune of about $300. She gave me her old car when she bought a new one. Push the band in the industry, and all I had to do was bang her consistently. She knew I was getting it with other girls too, but just asked that I wear a condom with them for anything more than a blow job. She certainly tried very hard to keep my attention away from them too.

Honestly, I'm of the opinion that it's all situational. Even with Mrs. Tomassi, I stole her away from a very well paid radiologist (easily making $500K), but the guy was a beta schlub. I had two nickels to rub together and a beat up pickup truck and I got with her despite her making far more than I did then.
 

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Being intimidated means you're putting the woman on a pedestal. Don't do that sh*t.

I dated a girl from a well to do family and took her to prom while I was 17 and a senior in high school. Sadly, she wasn't feeling me that much. At the time, a Nissan Sentra with a girl who had a E-Class Mercedes didn't help. Frankly, I would've had more fun playing Zelda that night. F**k it.

Rewind again to age 16, I met a couple of rich chicks at church who appeared to not know the difference between Pappadeaux and Pop Tarts! Despite displays of being a simple person, I somehow got to lay these girls! Both started with a walk and makeout on Lake Pontchartrain.

Hell, my mom was more well to do than my dad! We almost bought a nicer, bigger house back in '93. Never happened, but I appreciate simple sh*t. I could own a nice house and an Acura if I want.
 
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